YES! I had a roommate who identifies with literally any black-haired anime/hentai protagonist. He absorbs their identity like he's eating a burger.
Re:Zero is literally personality snack food, cause it's like... "Oh he's such a flawed character, isn't it enjoyable to watch him get killed over and over?" but it's not and it's just a big pity party for this perverted loser self-insert who wants to own the women in his life with this massive cosmic advantage of having spent time with them in other timelines. And eventually you'd think he'd just come to the conclusion that they are NOT the same people that he spent time with on an existential level, and those relationships he built up are GONE. But because it's a spank-bank account harem anime, it's treated like a romantic quest instead.
The worst part is that the guy I knew would defend this anime and praise it over and over, "it's so good, he really learns his lesson, he really gets punished. It's so complex".
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Re: Zero was designed to inflate egos and penises and to piss off people with brains. It functions to garner sympathy for creeps, fuels itself on the audience's patience without giving anything back, and lands squarely in Dating Sim territory as a high-concept, big budget flagship title of male entitlement without challenging or transcending the genre or setting in any meaningful way.