What is your most pissed off experience?

[Allanbrito]

Tell me! What is the experience that made you feel the most angry in your life?
For me, many, but if I have to call one that happened rescently I would peek ona that happened a coule of week. I was with my girlfriend, just enjoying some icecream, when suddenly a group of feminists came, they were students in a college that was pretty close to the place we were having ice cream. One of them saw me and she started to scream at me. I was like: "Yeah...... I don't know you, so I'm just going to leaaaaaaaavvvvvvvveeeeeeee.........."
She out of nowhere scream to me so loud that my girlfriend got pissed off of her and started to scream at her back, I grabed my gf's shoulder and said: Honney, it's ok. Just let's go somewhere else.
The feminist then threw my icecream to the floor. That really pissed me off so much. We just left, I'm not the kind of person that likes to scream arguments to people to their faces.

I aggree that women are fighting for what they want. I aggre whenever someone is fighting for what they want, but it really pisses me off, when they attack you just for a "generalizated tag". What I mean for "tag", well, I don't understand why someone is superior or betters for being a male, female, trasgender, gay, etc; y believe that people are great, talented and incredible poeple, just for theyr attitude, talents and charisma. The qualyties makes the person, not the gender, not the tag.
Who freking cares if someone is gay! If it's a great bussines man/woman that person is great for his/her talents, not for being gay...
I ended up so pissed off about the cituation that my GF bougth me a new icecream. hahaha!

[Hexigate]

I don't get angry well, and I can't recall any event that ever flicked my switch. All of my pissy experiences so far have been just thoughts that brooded in my mind. I could think about my insecurities and grow a frown from that.

Regarding your experience, tons of people will bully others for their own enjoyment, and it's always been tolerated when disguised under different dresses. It's just that "social justice" is the hot fad right now. I'm sorry you've experienced first-hand what someone could call Social Vengeance, but rest assured that ice cream will never scream at you for no reason.

[A-weird-girler]

Alright, so I'm in a brony community (long since stopped being a fan) and there's these users I thought were my friends since they drew really nice art for me one time and all about treated me with respect. One day, I open a message one os them sent me and it's my favorite character in a....well....rapey situation. I got mad and typed an angry message to them like any RATIONAL person would do. They get pissed off and block me then go on to make posts calling my characters fat and ugly. I obviously become a sort of a joke in the community since it was run by my "friends" who did that to me. Overall, very toxic environment and experience would never go back. I was also called a manipulative c*nt once by a user after telling her that I finally got the psychiatric help I needed to become mentally stable like I am today and asked them to forgive me for how I acted when I needed mental help and made bad decisions. (I mean, for people who believe in "The magic of friendship" they sure lack empathy on mental disorders and illnesses) Sorry for the rant

[ratique]

I'm unsure if I was the most pissed off ever, because it was now a few years ago. But I'm still disappointed about the whole thing today and since I'm not someone who lingers on anger for more than an hour in most cases, it's clear to me that it was a rough one.

Long story short, my former supervisor felt insecure because of me (I had more experience) and did not really enjoy me on her team, yet blocked my attempts of moving into a different one any chance she got. Boggles my mind to this day.

Leadership knew exactly what was going on, promised support, but then did nothing. I later found out that leadership thought of designers as generally "difficult" and "emotional" - both terms not very fitting to my personality.

I couldn't leave since I didn't want to leave my junior designer buddy to fend for herself. So I dealt with months of being treated like a fool.

To this day I can't think how I could have handled that situation differently (aside of quitting).

Luckily for me, great colleagues forced the leadership to act and move me into a new department after months of asking nicely for it. Since then it has been nothing but a wonderful experience and I was able to move up. So even the most upsetting experiences can bring positive things along with them, should you be able to fight through them.

[dawgofdawgness]

Someone in my history class glared at me for the entire semester, I shit you not, entire semester, and looked at me with a mocking smile whenever I had to get up to the front and speak. People'll dislike you for sure, but can they at least confront you about why? And maybe not be so in-your-face about it? Yeesh. That's really immature in my opinion. It still pisses me off in the middle of Summer vacation... I really hope that guy moves to Germany or outer space or something. I'm sick of getting glared at like I'm some kind of criminal. >_> really does wonders for my self esteem

[bakasama25]

It's weird that fans of cartoons that have friendship and tolerance as virtues tend to have fandoms that have some really toxic people.

[SynCypher]

It really takes a lot to piss me off, but when it happens, it sucks (both for me and often for the people who irk me to such a degree that I'd actually BE upset).

The most pissed off I'd ever been is when a roommate that'd been forced on us (by another roommate) came to live at our place, they got stonking drunk one night while I was at work. I'd come home and in a drunk rage they were trying to cook and using the wrong utensils, turned on the oven and then proceeded to put their food in the microwave (because in their drunk state they didn't know the difference) and then proceeded to bitch us all out for...well being around, actually.

I decided I wasn't going to get bitched at all night by this person who I'd tried to help (and who nearly cut my hand open on this tin can lid they'd stuffed into my hand for some reason). I went to the room I was renting (as we were all just renting rooms in the house from the owner). The drunk kept throwing shit and stomping around the house, and then proceeded to attack my cat. I saved my kitty, locked us both up in our room and then stayed up almost all night finishing a project for work (which was due the next day).

I'd started to go to sleep around 6AM after spending all night listening to this belligerent jerk abuse our house (although they'd fallen hard asleep in the wee hours). Just as I was dozing my nose caught the scent of fire and electricity. I jumped up immediately and ran upstairs. The idiot drunk had cranked our oven to 500 and left it on for six hours on broil. The element in the oven had caught fire and was now sparking in our oven. I rushed over and turned it off (because if you open the oven it oxidizes the fire and we'd have had an explosion on our hands). If I hadn't've woken the oven would've caught fire, exploded (and yes, the guy we bought the new element from said that if I hadn't caught it, it would've caused the oven to explode) and everyone sleeping in the house would've burned to death.

After the crazy drunk woke up with a massive hangover I lost my shit and yelled at them, explaining what they'd done. Afterward they went out of their way to tell everyone what a horrible person I was, even though if I hadn't turned off the oven they would've been the first to die as they were on the first floor with the thing. (And so hungover they wouldn't have woken to the smoke) So, I kicked them out of my house. I've never forgiven the person who did this to me, and even now they entreaty me trying to 'put the past behind us' but I've made it clear they are never forgiven and never trusted.

To this day I despise them for putting all the people in my house at risk, and that's the most pissed off I've ever been.

[A-weird-girler]

Yeah. Just baffles my mind. I mean, I'm not a saint either and I admit I've had my faults and slip-ups, but I would NEVER do something like that to anyone.

[Thesleepypencil]

Probably last week.

I was asked by my boss who knew i was artistic if i could paint a picnic table for a summer display. He asked me at the beginning of june and told me it needed to be done by the 20th. I agreed because that was plenty of time and he said he would talk with my supervisor about scheduling me paint the table only shifts.

Cut to too the 9th, a Saturday. Where i had a week a d a half left, haven't been given ANY time to work on it because we hadn't received the table until that day. And i waa going camping for four days right before the 20th. And they askedme to start painting it. WITHOUT any shifts tk do it. Yes i has to do it BEFORE AND AFTER my already scheduled shifts. Leading to three 12 hour work days, some where i actually didn't get any breaks on because no one was scheduled who knew my position, and only 3-5 hours working on the table.

I ended up sick and stressed and upset and not really 100% enjoying ny camping trip. And when i checked the schedule the next week to see if they at leaat learned their lesson from seeing me work myself to death and gave me the last two shifts before it's due for me to work on it.

They didn't. I still can't look at the (not fully finished but no one else knows that) table withoyt abad taste in my mouth. I just want to take a knife to it i hate it so much.

[DiegoPalacios]

Maybe it has something to do with people trying to look "morally superior"?

[DiegoPalacios]

@SynCypher Good ridance. No one needs people like this in their lives.

[Cavechan]

Jesus christ... and I thought my old roommates were bad...

-One of my old roommates adopted two ferrets without our permission. They were just there one day. Mind you we already had four cats when we were supposed to have only one. Roommate did not take care of the ferrets at all. Their room was disgusting (they were a couple, we were a couple) and they didn't clean up the room ever so it was always covered in books and clothes. Eventually the smell got so bad that we had to tell them that the door to their bedroom had to be shut at all times. Well, they let their ferrets run around their already disgusting room and the ferrets would poop in the one spot in front of their door that wasn't covered in books/clothes. They never cleaned it up until we moved out.

One day a friend with her friend came over and asked to see the ferrets and this is when I learned they had been neglecting the ferrets. I never saw them so I didn't know. One ferret had dried poop stuck to its butt. The other ferret had its collar on so tight that the collar was actually stuck to its skin and the ferret was barely moving. My friend had to use soap and water and very carefully with scissors cut the collar off. It came off in pieces that broke off. It was horrifying. Immediately after the collar was removed, the ferret gained SO much energy. My roommate just sat in silence the whole time.

After that, I told her that the ferrets had to be moved out of the house and if it wasn't done in a week or two, then I would call a ferret rescue or the ASPCA or SOMEONE to take the ferrets away. They moved the ferrets out shortly after.

When we were moving out, we had to clean out the apartment of course. It was disgusting. They did at least clean up their room and partly cleaned up the kitchen, but roommate was complaining she was tired and had work the next day and went home at midnight - I had work the next day too! We ended up cleaning up - THEIR MESS - until 4am. I say their mess because they used the kitchen way, way more than we did and would make huge meals in it (because they had gaming and people over on Sundays) and would hardly clean up. The fridge was so gross because they let stuff spill in it and never cleaned it up.

Not only that, but they knew for months that we were all moving out and did not plan for it at all. We rented a U-Haul and had already been moving boxes out two weeks prior. They had NOTHING. They never moved out anything and they had much more stuff than us. So when our other roommate (5 people in a 2 bedroom...) was moving out his stuff with his friend, they actually had the nerve to have his friend move out their stuff too. It happened the day of, they planned nothing.

I was pretty angry at the time and even though I kept it no secret what they did and told my friends... my friends still remained friends with them for some unknown reason. So I have had to see her multiple times now. It was a number of years ago, so I have moved on and she has definitely improved as a person (cleaning up her current house, taking care of her pets) but it's just something you can't forget.

[joannekwan]

@Allanbrito … but what were they yelling at you about? I'm confused. Even if they were being stupid and berating you for being chivalrous to your gf or something like holding the door open for her, that's a reason. Why were they screaming at you? What were they shouting?

@SynCypher and @Cavechan omg, that sounds horrible! I'm sorry y'all had to deal with these people. Glad everyone and the ferrets are safe.

Luckily I've never been provoked enough to lose my shit and yell back at someone before but the last time I got absolutely angry was when:
Some white street rat spat on my dad when we were walking home from dinner. Were were going down the street and he was on his way up it, coming towards us. I wasn't sure if he was a hobo or not but he was ranting about my dad's nice clothes going on like, "Oh yeah, you like your fancy clothes? Well see how much you like your Armani T-shirt now -spit-" I'm sure the guy was mentally unstable but he was still functional enough to know what the fuck he was doing.
My dad tried dodging but some of it still got on him. Of course being civil people we ignored it and walked on home.
But I was so seething mad. If I were a bigger man, knew how to fight, and there were no repercussions, an altercation would have ensued.

[SynCypher]

@DiegoPalacios Right? I am with you on this 100%

@Cavechan Oh I dunno, you've got a real winner there. Jeeze talk about extreme animal abuse, what kind of person leaves a collar on a ferret so long that it becomes embedded? (And the only reason I don't keep ferrets or rats myself is because of the smell. If you're not on that, the stench gets horrendous. I'm so sorry you had to live with that!) Sounds like they wanted you to be their nanny (which, as adults that's pretty terrible). Good riddance to bad behavior like that and to careless people. Glad you escaped!

@joannekwan Thanks, it's good that everybody turned out alright more or less in both scenarios. Sometimes you can end up with some real crappy roommates. (Alas, that whole 'luck of the draw' thing)

And seriously? Why would some random dude just spit on your dad, that's insane. You're probably right that he had some mental issues going on (a lot of homeless people unfortunately suffer from mental illness and aren't getting help so their problems just get worse until they hurt themselves or others). It's good that you didn't get into a row with him though, if he was on something and you'd gotten into a fight it could've turned out terrible.

Some dude jumped my brother and knifed him in the head (and my bro was trying to keep him from attacking another person) and that guy was mentally unstable. My brother interjected 'cause this person had tried to stab someone else he was arguing with. Sometimes you don't know if someone is concealing a weapon so, in all honesty you and your dad did the smart thing (even if the whole situation was totally crap).

[ratique]

And when i checked the schedule the next week to see if they at leaat learned their lesson from seeing me work myself to death and gave me the last two shifts before it's due for me to work on it.

Nobody will care that you were overworked as long as you don't speak up, if that's how they treat their employees. I recommend to refuse similar work unless you are provided the shifts needed. Stand next to your boss when the schedule is written if necessary. Make him change the existing one.

I've learned that unless you draw clear lines, speak up in a friendly but clear manner, you will be abused, overlooked and won't be compensated fairly.

[Allanbrito]

We were literaly just sitting talking about movies. And it was just one of them, which makes me think that luckily not all feminist are like that. But she was yelling something that I didn't really underdtood. I suposse it was because we were trying each other icecream? I asume....
I don't know. There are a lot of things I don't get with hardcore feminism, likethe opening door thing. If someone opens a door for me I would actualy feel very thankful, there is people that has opened doors for me and I'm always like: thank you!
I don't see the problem with that. I don't believe we are equal, because all of us have diferents lives, thoughts, likes, dislikes, but what I believe is that all of us have the same value. I would never force my GF to stay at home against her will, in fact she has a work and two degrees.
I was just having fun with my gf, tasting each others icecrean us something we always do.

[BobbyjoeX]

everyday of my life, its a routine to get pissed off and stressed out to the point of getting sick, weather it is people, things not working right or stupid fucking shit i read on the internet

[Kann]

I don't get angry a lot. I'm a type of person that just wants some peace and quiet.

But last time was few months ago when a person me and my best friend used to know decided to post hateful comments on our stuff year after we cut ties with them. It was one short sentence for my drawings along the lines "No one looks at and likes you drawings. xD" and a whole wall of hateful text under my friends blog. I was more pissed about that blog part, because it was supposed to be "critique" while they actually went on about why my friend sucks, done under an obviously fake account and while getting wrong a lot of facts from what my friend wrote in her stories.

You can mess with me, but leave my friends alone. (•ˋ _ ˊ•)

@Allanbrito I just hate people like that. Looking for a problem where it clearly doesn't exist just because, I don't know, they like to scream about stuff?

[feuersichel]

I totaly agree! It's sooo important to draw clear borders.

My sister had that problem when she was in a internship. At the end of the year, they cut her vaccation, never compensated overtime and reduced her mealbreak as punishmen of a thing she had nothing to do with... And that while she was waaay underpaid... but she needed that internship to finish her school. So she thought there was no choice. As much as I hate that company, if she stood up for her rights, they wouldn't have been abusing her as much. But it's easier said than done, especially from an outside position.
I was more angry about that stupid company than she was. (Sorry for bad english)

[saralj]

DRIVING
Currently learning to drive a manual car in Scotland and really struggling. I'm a perfectionist and I overthink stuff, and it's been hard... I also had to change my instructor (after filing a formal complaint) because he kept saying that "women mostly can't drive anyway", being rather aggressive and putting down my faults to my "time of month".
Sooo... getting there slowly but my confidence is a bit low!