I was trying to think of something I wouldn't ever write about or some sort of relationship that wouldn't be touched on, and I couldn't come up with anything. If it's necessary to the story or to the character's development, it gets told. I certainly won't glorify it, but I'm not going to pretend certain things in life don't happen and therefore nix it from the general story, or as a story in and of itself. I'm Going to be Fine is a perfect example of this as it deals heavily with addiction and mental health and how the two MC's cope with them.
That said, I don't think I've ever created an overtly toxic relationship. The people aren't perfect that's for sure. Couples will fight, friends will fight and fall out, situations will occur that everyone has to deal with and overcome, but for the most part, they aren't out to intentionally hurt one another just to prove a point. That goes for a relationship or a family dynamic. The only exception is Mika Torino's family in Anywhere. That is probably the only abusive family dynamic I've created.
I guess the only trope, if there even is one out there, is the one of a perfect relationship and "Life is Butterflies and Rainbows."
Sorry, nope. Real life ain't pretty, but it can help tell some amazing stories that others can connect with and characters they can relate to. If it's one trope I don't avoid is that no one is alone in their struggles, doesn't matter if it's real-world, or supernatural.
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