I know. Sometimes I just want to say hell with it and let my character ogle them and describe the other character's physical charms in great detail. Then I wonder if that would be weird. because there are times in real life when you see a person who seems extraordinarily handsome/beautiful to you. You get fixated on little things about them that seem unreasonably beautiful, and you think... if this person asked me out, I would not be able to say no.
That happens in real life, doesn't it? Or has people-watching driven me mad?
Story time: I remember seeing a guy at a temple once (sacrilege!). He wasn't really noticed by anyone else. But I saw him, all in white, praying diligently while I was being a creeper. There was nothing special about him, and I can't even remember his face anymore or what made him seem so special, but it was like being stopped in my tracks by a glass wall. Then I moved on, pretended to pray to God and left, ignoring him because I'm not weird. At least, not intentionally.