i feel like i could easily boil it down to tired dads and (good) wine aunts
like specifically the somewhat scruffy and a lil gruff but they've got a heart of gold and will hold u down brand of tired dad and then the vibrant kind of eccentric but still warm and caring when it counts wine aunt
both are sarcastic or a lil sassy but again can be warm if the need calls but also wont hesitate to tell you to "get your shit together"
they're also probably loaded but their sense of style might make you think otherwise
also because i'm a self indulgent brat i've got a handful of ocs like this because i need to perceive characters like this a lot