If you know phrasing is important, then, as you who wants to convey an idea and as someone who has seen already what it is to have people not getting what you mean, then of course, it's your obligation as the one that tries to convey a message to paviment the path so no one goes off track of that idea, you don't want people to get upset or offended then you have to carefully plan your execution, so there aren't misunderstandings or, you could know your real intentions when you typed but don't like them being called out.
Not always, there is people that can be analythical on their own without having someone to mark down all their mistakes for them, you won't have teachers all your life to tell you where you're making a mistake. And not always the advice is going to be accepted depending on how obstinated the person who is in fact asking for said advice is, you won't always hear what you want to hear. And even if people have come out with the very same solution that others have offered, or the very same advice ask yourself why are you unsatisfied with the already providen answers or why are you continuosly excusing your situation or circumstances.
I never said people fall due to laziness, I've said that the lazy looks for an outcome without putting much effort into it, they are creative of obtaining something without needing to make great sacrifices. Meanwhile the people in denial are the ones that rather put "Buts" and "I can'ts" and believe that a missed oportunity is a matter of self-punishment or that because they can't achieve their dreams now, they are a total failure.
If the circumstances doesn't provide to achieve something right now, is because it is not the right moment, you lack tools, you may lack preparation, you may lack a million things that make an event don't come your way, and even if you prepare yourself for a situation, luck will still be a mayor factor. I do keep my mind open, but you have to be realistic at the same time and understand there are things you cannot force just because you want them, and not because we're telling you the reasons that means you have to give up, if you consider you have to give up and not try then you're the one looking for others to tell you that because internally you may be the one actually thinking that and unconsciously trying to deflect that onto others as self-defense.
If you lack something, then you need to figure out a way to compensate for it instead of excusing it.
What I gave you was not advice at all, it was the very same thing you have been told, when I checked out your threads I didn't find anyone complaining about you not giving space to the artist to put their part on the idea. And when you were told that you put zero to little information it wasn't because you put something that could be shaped alongside another person, you literally didn't provide anything to your pitch, just something very vague.
As well, you have claimed that you have provided in some of your threads samples of your work, but I don't see any, so you didn't put anything regarding your own abilities. Anyone can write a summary about what they want in their story, but that is not proof that you can actually make a story.
And please, don't victimize yourself or self-depricate yourself, I didn't call you ignorant and I'm absolutely not a teacher. So avoid those words, because they not only sound ridiculous but they are also uncomfortable.
People have already told the very same "advice" I gave you, but it seems that you not only need it to be told again like 4 or 5 times, but highlighted as well.
I couldn't care less about the comments on your post, people will have your pitch as their first impression, and if you're not interesting they are not going to be intrigued, if they are not intrigued or consider yourself shady then you need to understand that they are not going to bother.
Communication and trust is an exchange, but still, you, as you're the one needing someone, as you're the one wanting to "fullfill a dream" that is not a matter of life and death, as you're the one that is not offering anything of real value to another person, as you who is the one desperately not obtaining the results you desire.
You're the one that needs to serve everything in a golden plate and still, hope someone is a good samaritan enough to consider collaborating with you in something that has more chances of not being benefitial in the long run, because artists, we're more experienced when it comes to these offers, we already wasted time, we already ended up in fishy situations, with scammers, with all, and your average image doesn't provide to safety even if you offer to clarify any questions, that just feels like those promoters on the street that want you to consider a potential job but you have to follow them to a tiny office where they are supposedly going to explain to you about the job and all, and honestly, no one wants to follow a stranger God knows where.
As well, I found out in this very same thread that a potential collaborator has asked you questions and you didn't answer, so I wonder if you really are the only one being ignored or if you ignore those that don't fit your criteria. Or if you've provided wrong or very limited contact information for any other collaborator or any indicator that you're an actual human being and not some fake account, mostly promoters of certain "companies" that promises publishing novels or comics with "potentially good contracts" that is going to disappear with someone else's work the second you have gained something from them.
My last comment wasn't telling you to have a friend, I was telling you how an actual collaboration has more guarantee of succeeding.
If no one ask you questions then you either are too untrustworthy that they rather ignore you, or you're not interesting enough. Again, you are the one needing someone, you need to work out and compensate for what you lack and be impeccable, and still, that won't be a guarantee that you're going to get help.
Consider this practice for the hypothetical day that you may have a comic and start promoting it in social media, just because you share it online and people see the ad won't mean that they are going to click, read it, sub and leave a comment. You are the one in need, you're the one that has to make it easy enough for anyone to jump.
Even if you're looking for advice, the execution of how you do it doesn't provide that, that's why a lot of people assume you're looking to be pitied and you're just complaining about unfairness, because of the way how you phrase things, how you excuse yourself, all the buts, and can'ts that you continuosly mention as well for the self-deprecation. People have already gave you the very same things I've said, they have gave you resources, they have told you the reasons why you don't look convincing to them and as well that you can't always have what you want at the right instant or that things aren't filled with glitter and pink dust for other writers, artists and collaborators.
You can search and ask for as much advice that you want, but you won't find an easy solution or a magic formula that will guarantee immediate success. Effort doesn't ensure achieving a goal, and being realistic doesn't mean to give up or that you can't or never will.
