With my main siblings in "Damsel in the Red Dress" I really wanted to express the struggle of an older sibling in really trying life situations trying to protect their younger siblings from the reality of their lives. My siblings and I have gone through pretty trying circumstances, on memorable night being sleeping in an abandoned building. These emotions of terror, and sadness while trying your best to comfort your younger siblings are the sort of feelings I imagine Alicia having for Andrew as she tried to shelter him from the reality of their parent's divorce as much as she could
My siblings in both "Hushabye Prince" and "Damsel in the Red Dress" are pretty close, but things are very different for both sets. Both Alicia x Andrews and Jinwoo x Jimin love each other to death, but one set is complicated by a divorce that meant growing up separately and the other by...spoilers lol
An interesting factor of Alicia's (Damsel in the Red Dress) character that I've noted brought out by Jinho is the subtly of the different ways she views things. Kattar grew up with a very loving mom who spoiled him in a lot of ways, and Alicia has commented before that she thinks she's jealous.
But after their parents divorced, Alicia's little brother went to live with their dad and their father's sister, who basically treated him like her own child, babied him, and loved him like a mother, but Alicia never once said she was jealous of anything her little brother received even though she should have had the same.
While she envies other people, she'd give her left arm for her little brother, and so I didn't even realize when I wrote her that he's the person she never comments on being jealous of in any way, though he received a lot she didn't.
This is one of those things about a sibling connection that is very real, and while it doesn't have to be literal siblings, I think really only can be felt in people who have struggled to survive together. While I don't know anyone who is as completely unselfish in this respect as Alicia, this 'I'd sacrifice everything for their sake' mentality that often is written for mothers, is also present in siblings who have gone through a lot together.
The leads in my new story "Damsel in the Red Dress," ARE the pair of siblings, but their relationship is entirely the flip of Alicia and Andrew's. I find it interesting to explore the dynamic of siblings who can be 100% furious with each other often, but can always get over that because in the end they're there for each other.
I know he’s not interested in talking, but turning the radio on would still feel like telling him to shut up.
I could think of a thousand things to say if left to my own devices - but my body has felt like one big system error for the last five years.
I have a thousand things I want to say and I don’t feel like saying any of them, staring at the back of his curly head as he studies his scrawny arm resting on the windowsill, with something like stubborn pride that unsettles me.
“How do you calculate the length of the hypotenuse?” I blurt brusquely, like it’s a dare.
“I don’t need you to quiz me, Lady Licorice,” He doesn’t turn his gaze from his arm, rolling down his sleeve until it hides his bloodless hands.
“Excuse me for trying to keep you out of summer school,” I sniff with more than genuine vehemence. “Remind me who got a ‘D’ on their last test?”
“I didn’t study for that one. I studied for this one,” he says in an exasperated monotone, crossing his arms over his chest - leaning forward against the seat belt like he’s a ragdoll just barely being kept upright.
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Both Dominic and Essence have siblings in "A Dozen Morning Glories" and they are extremely essential to the book.
Dominic's sisters' emotions lead him to better understand and sympathize with the feelings of the female lead, while the difference in the way she is treated versus how her sister is treated is a huge part of what wakes Essence up to the reality that the way she lives is not acceptable.
While these things could technically be expressed with female friends, the impact is different when it hits, literally closer to home. Both watching someone be mistreated your entire life and watching someone be treated better than you for your entire life will have a different impact than just seeing bits and pieces of these realities occasionally.
I actually write a lot of siblings! There’s quite a few in Butter Bee but they haven’t shown up yet, Lady Lock even has a little bro xD I think I tend to write siblings with really strong bonds, although I do write some that don’t have very good relationships. As someone who is still roommates with their brother since college, I have a good friendship with my sibling so I like writing dynamics that are super strong and kinda goofy. My brother has been my best friend since we were kids! I also love reading fiction about siblings too.
Here’s some of the ones I have planned for Butter Bee!
@beebutterbee that's so cool. My siblings are my best friends too, and I feel like siblings are often underappreciated in fiction. I have 5, and there's at least one sibling in almost all of my stories.
I feel in general big fiction platonic relationships in general are always put on the back burner which is really sad because platonic relationships of all kinds can create really strong support and security for people. So I think it’s sad when it seems romantic relationships are valued more. I think both can be just as interesting to write about it, like I do like some romance but with platonic relationships I feel like I usually get more introspective narratives since siblings usually know more things about their siblings brain. Also, dynamics can be so fun to write in siblings! I really like kinda goofy but caring sibling dynamics, especially when one sibling is extroverted and the other introverted because they can through the same situation but have a total different reaction
Yeah, I have so many stories where I love writing the dynamics of the families, grandmothers, parents, aunts and uncles and such, but I have so many different kinds of siblings dynamics, I write. And I definitely agree platonic relationships are just as important and interesting in fiction and real life as romantic ones. they need more time to shine!
Yesss I love writing family dynamics too! Although sometimes the family members I write about can be pretty cruddy people unfortunately. But I still like writing platonic relationships, I think even I have a good amount of characters that are just really good friends without being related. I feel kinda dorky saying it but the power of a strong friendship is indeed important. And platonic relationships are also complex, so for me they’re just as fun as to write romance.
I probably focus more on platonic relationships in my writing tho, although my current webcomic has a little more than usual. I think it’s because the whole start of Butter Bee was actually poking fun at romance tropes in a silly way, but as I developed it more the romance still stayed crucial the plot xD But really I have stories with no love interests at all.
Same. Not all the families are great, and there are actually a lot of really toxic family dynamics, but some good ones too. Dominic and Cocoa's parents aren't super kind to them or Honey because they are all brown while their parents and brother Ben are fair-skinned, but the three brown siblings are very loving and supportive of each other, and even though their brother Ben can't relate, and they aren't quite as close, they like hanging out with him too, even though they are all adults now. Dominic and Cocoa are the closest out of the siblings, and they are roommates and besties and love cooking, watching movies, making origami and such together, I love designing their interactions
And yeah, I have platonic none related relationships in my stories too, a lot of sets of besties and such, though i'm not sure I have any stories without any couples or romance at lol. Several of my characters have married older siblings, or adult siblings with significant others, or things like that, even if they themselves are single and so on.
My family looks like this too, my dad and brother have darker skin tones while my mom and I are much much paler. We’re all very supportive of each other though! But I know some families can get very toxic, so I write about that too inspired from seeing my friends families and my own extended family lol
And that makes sense to write romance into all your stories, I think romantic relationships are also fun to write and if that’s more your focus go for it! Def write what you love … literally I guess xD
Lol, I think I love writing all kinds of relationship dynamics, so I often have representation of all different kinds at least a little in each story.
It makes sense to me, though it might seem weird for other people how wide an age range I include, or how central parents, or parental figures, are to my stories when anything other than romance and friends tend to not make much appearance in many stories. Parents have a huge affect in all three of my currently releasing novels, because they have a huge affect on who we are, and I guess I just find the anatomy of a relationship, all kinds of relationships, pretty fascinating to counterfeit and weave into my stories.
Ah yeah! You just like to run the gamut of relationships it seems with every story! I tend to focus on a specific type of a relationship for different stories, but that’s usually because my stories are much shorter. I guess with my long webcomic I’m seeing a lot of romance in it because the story stretches on longer? More time to explore different ideas I think.
I have a big age range in characters too! Older characters can be interesting to write because they do often reflect our experiences with parental or mentor figures, which do shape who we are for better or worse
Essence relationship with her little sister is very complicated and it makes it hard for everyone, including Essence, to tell whether Beth really cares about her or not. The long short of it is that Beth would like Essence to be happy, as long as it doesn't cost Beth anything. Unfortunately this has meant Essence suffering the burnout of being the only one taking care of their mother after the stroke, and all she gets from Beth are excuses, but Essence feels the need to excuse and defend everyone else in her life, so she doesn't even really get angry for herself.