Coming out, YEAH!

littlefox 2021-08-20 14:53:00 UTC #1

It felt suffocating but not anymore, I have finally figured out my gender identity

I wanted to come out to my family too but not after the reaction I got a year ago when I came out as a bisexual. Basically my mother told me it was a phase and proceeded with a long lecture

Random_Guy 2021-08-20 14:54:47 UTC #2

This may be weird to hear from a stranger, but I'm happy to hear you've figured something so important out.
Be proud of who you are and you cannot fail, always remember that.

Stargazer31 2021-08-20 14:56:26 UTC #3

I'm happy that you've found the courage to come out! Don't let the naysayers drag you down!

Aleksei 2021-08-20 14:57:32 UTC #4

Good for you!
I am glad that you thought on this community as a safe place to confide n_n
You keep doing what you do, and if its a phase, let it be the longest and cherished you want. After all, people never stop discovering themselves =D

littlefox 2021-08-20 14:57:54 UTC #5

thanks and it's not weird, it feels encouraging especially after my family rejets me. It makes me feel that there are people in world who don't mind other people's way of life and let them live as they want.

wispysing 2021-08-20 14:58:37 UTC #6

Congratulations man, that's great! Being sure of who you are is a liberating feeling. And yeah, parents will be parents. Maybe give them some time and take it slow. Embrace your identity, and I wish you all the best

Random_Guy 2021-08-20 14:58:46 UTC #7

Pride is a big thing for me, anyone can tell you that, I will never stop encouraging people to be who they are.

Akhilles 2021-08-20 14:59:34 UTC #8

You beautiful person, you. Happy for your happiness. I hope this gives you the courage to be more awesome.

littlefox 2021-08-20 15:00:58 UTC #9

Thank you. ___________________

littlefox 2021-08-20 15:01:19 UTC #10

Thank you _______________

irislm 2021-08-21 14:21:59 UTC #11

I'm happy that you got to figure out ur gender identity. as some who went went through that process i know how liberating it is and it feels as if all that weight on ur shoulders are lifted off. keep doing what you do. Congratulations!! embrace yourself, cherish and love yourself........

EncryptedWriting 2021-08-21 14:24:46 UTC #12

Yessssssss you GOOOO! As an internet stranger, but proudly biromantic, I know how hard it is.

You go my friend!!

KilljoyConstruct 2021-08-21 14:35:37 UTC #13

Hell yeah! Figuring out your sexuality and gender identity is a tough road, and coming out is a whole other story, so I’m glad you were able to not only find out who you are, but also share your identity with us! Keep being you, friend. From this nonbinary lesbian to you, you got this

NickRowler 2021-08-21 14:47:12 UTC #14

Sometimes parents don't understand, sometimes they are slow to understand, and sometimes they will never understand.

At the end of the day, how you live your life and your happiness is not depended on their approval of you. Just be yourself. And if they want to lecture you, just try to avoid the topic.

fleurravenbooks 2021-08-21 15:35:49 UTC #15

Im so happy you figured it out and feel safe to share it with us, and i hate to be this person...but if they didn't have good reaction , maybe wait a bit to tell them (for your own safety), again i wouldn't know since i wasn't in that situation but i think you should wait a bit before telling them

BlunderingAlbatross 2021-08-21 15:39:28 UTC #16

Congratulation! Now you are free to live your truth in a way only you can! Coming out was a great boost to my mental state, so keep on trucking friendo!

And thanks for sharing with us!

16BitInk 2021-08-24 23:41:57 UTC #17

Congrats on figuring yourself out!! Be proud of who you are!

Kotkoda 2021-08-28 22:21:45 UTC #18

Awww, congratulations! That's awesome!