Comparing yourself with other creators… How to overcome this?

I still suffer from time to time from comparing myself with others (in terms of subs at least) but I was waaaaaay worse a few years ago.

Seriously speaking back then I was even afraid of showing my artworks on public and it get's worse when I see a really good artwork. In addition to that, those artworks were done by artists few years younger than me. I was like, GDI I'm already at my 20s and I still draw like crap! So yahh my past self always lose confidence whenever she see's a really good artwork.

Its stress me out so much so I did what @shazzbaa suggested here and I didn't look at other's work. I didn't join any groups, didn't socialize with other artists online (in which I do not recommend at all cus socializing is important) and just focused on improving my artwork until I can say with confidence, "Yes, I can go toe to toe with them," "I'm not afraid of showing my artwork anymore."

It also helps if you can find an artist whose works will really make you feel that you want to draw more. Other people's artworks made me lose confidence back then but when I first saw Shilin Huang's artworks I was like "Damn I wanna draw more" "I want to be as good as her someday." It turned out to be one of my life goals.

The most important thing is not to let anything get to you. Remember that every person is unique. Focus on improving and fulfilling your goals. Sure you may feel down or stressed but that's not a reason to stop but to strive even harder. Instead of using other's art as comparison, why not use is as a reference or a guideline to improve your own art instead? It's more enjoyable that way.

TL;DR Everyone sure experienced this but don't let it get to you and don't stop. Use it as a guide post or a goal line for improvement.

I actually do that all the time tbh... I would look at another person's works that I idolize and look back at my work and feel bad about myself. My way of coping with it is to go talk with my friends, have them listen to my ramble, show them my work from time to time and ABSORB THEIR COMPLIMENTS AS IF IT'S MY ONLY WAY OF STAYING SANE. Friends help me out a lot in developing my skills tbh LMFAO Back in the day I even went actively looking for arts that I deem... of lower quality than mine. (Bad young self is very bad) But in a way looking at arts like that, and then looking back at my old arts, it makes me feel better about myself : ^ ) At least I improved, I would think to myself.

As years pass and you get older though, nowadays whenever I see someone else's work that is superior to mine, I will just go lay down. try not to cry. cry a lot, before bouncing back up and turn that frustration into motivation to improve my art further : - D

they way I see it there is always someone out there better then you, no matter where you are in artistic skill, someone out there with a different technique or a different style in art and writing. that is just better. the point is to be inspired to press forward, and set goals for yourself to reach that point as well and you can't do that feeling sorry for yourself. there are tons of people better then me even in this thread, lol, but if i cry and quit..thinking "balls I'll never be that good...i'll never have that many fans...my comic is shit...my art is shit...my story is shit...i hate my life" I'll never get better. one must aspire to surpass their master. so to get over that I just think about the fact that everyone was in that position at one point everyone felt at one point they were shit..and if they stopped because of that they wouldn't be where they are today.

It's never about being a good artist, it's about being popular and a good marketer.

I think trying to turn it around is the best idea, setting goals for yourself and managing expectations. Before I started making my comic I sort of sat down with myself and said: "Alright, no one might actually like this. If someone does, then fun, but if not you'll do it because you think it's fun. Not for recognition."

It wasn't that articulate or literal, but that's my basic idea. I don't make my comic for others, it's for me. And if others happen to like it then I'm thrilled. And yeah, I want subscribers just like anyone else. But I know that the moment recognition starts taking over, it will become a chore and it'll drive me away from what I consider a fun hobby.

As for others who are better than me at this, there are tons of them. But I try to flip it around, interact with them and find inspiration in their work. Is there anything they're drawing that I can try my hand at? How are they telling their story, is that something I can improve in my own work. And so forth. I feel like actually interacting with those I consider skilled creators has helped me make my own stuff better and it makes me feel better and keeps the salt at bay.

And setting goals of course. My goal was always very clear. I want to learn how to draw. I want to tell my story somehow/somewhere. I can do those things in conjunction. That's why you'll find Voidchild1 probably looks very rough if you go back to the first chapter.

Goals, expectations and gathering inspiration is the reason why I think I've kept this up for as long as I have, with no end in sight. =)

Never EVER compare yourself with other people. I did that wayyy too much in the past and my art suffered as a result because I was too...well I wouldn't say depressed, more like I was in a bad self loathing mood that could last for weeks and thus no work on my comic Life of an Aspie2 would get done. Also as an aspie myself, trivial things that may not seem that big a deal to most everybody here are a big deal to me like why are my tones so noisy and therefore distracting when people scroll down while reading my comic? That's something that held me back from creating new pages sooner. Everyone else seems to be able to add tones without a problem so why is it just me? I thought I figured out why a few days ago, but my tones still keep coming out noisy whenever I upload new pages of LoaA. Its because of this that I'm just not going to bother getting to the root of why my tones look distracting and instead work on LoaA until I make enough money to pay someone to redo the tones for me.

tl;dr don't compare yourself to other people. Do what you do best. Leave the rest to others.

Well, I'm not sure if it's just me but I don't look at other creators like that anymore, probably because I've finally reached a point where I'm confident in my art. Of course, there are still people out there way better than me but I don't think of how interior my work is to theirs, actually, I get really REALLY inspired when I see people better than me and I analyze their work and see what I can learn from it.

Whispwill the creator of Kings Folly, for example, inspires me whenever I watch her streams and I get the biggest urge to draw more of my comic or other illustrations even on my lazy days.

Just remember that the artists you feel inferior to worked really hard to get where they're at and you have to do the same. I had days when I would draw all day long until my hand would hurt, I even did this when I was around seven or eight years old and wouldn't even play outside with my friends.

There's nothing wrong with looking at other creators and comparing yourself to them, I think, so long as you're able to separate your journey from theirs. I used to have crippling anxiety about it to the point that I would talk down about other peoples' stuff just to feel better about myself. Do not do this. If you have to rely on being negative to feel positive then life's going to get harder as your creative journey goes on.

I think my biggest achievement in this is learning to transform jealousy into admiration. Just remember that another person's work is not a reflection on your own, and even the people who are further along in their artistic journey almost certainly felt the same way you feel now about someone else. Being able to look at someone else's art, go "yeah, that's great!" and use it as either a source of inspiration or motivation makes life easier.

Of course getting to that point is really hard. I think a lot of it is like...when you're growing up and you identify yourself as an artist or whatever, that title becomes such a big part of who you are that it feels like a failure to your core self when you don't think you're as good as you would like to be yet. It's understandable! You're an artist, what you create is important to you! But realizing that it's about what you're creating and not about what others are creating is a good first step. You're walking your own path. Don't mind the people in front of you too much, you're all headed in similar directions. Don't think "I'm not there," think "I'm not there yet."

Also re: numbers and metrics, really really really do not worry about that. I remember being on deviantART and there was a huge thing about people pining for pageviews and it's really unhealthy trying to measure your success or your talent by numbers. Being noticed and getting those numbers has less to do with your actual ability and more to do with engaging your audience, marketing, and sometimes even just dumb luck. It should definitely not be used as some sort of quantification of your worthiness.

Just keep working hard, practice at a level of discomfort, strive to learn new things. It's hard being an artist! It takes a lot to even put things out there for people to see, so allow yourself some personal kudos

I think that nomatter how many readers a creator has they can still doubt themselves sometimes when they compare their work to others.
I also think the most important rule of creating a comic is to ask yourself this question: Am I doing this because I'm having fun with it? I think having fun doing what you do is the base. Also, when you're 'upset' with your latest page because it didn't turn out the way you want it, just promise yourself the next page will be better and you'll improve along the way.

Recognise your feelings, acknowledge them, accept them, move on.

It's fine to envy and it's fine to fret, but coming to a standstill because of those insecurities won't make those feelings go away. More over, punishing yourself or anyone else because you feel temporarily inadequate isn't fair to either of you.

You're human. No one is 100% confident all the time. It's okay to feel rubbish and doubt yourself- natural, even- but remind yourself that it's a cycle and it will pass. In the meantime, go do something that makes you happy. Indulge a little. You'll feel better when you come back later. 👍

When I encounter this feeling, I don't channel it into 'I'm a failure', I channel it to 'I have more to learn'. That's when I kick into detective mode and try to spot things that they're doing (that I admire about them) and go after learning how to do it.

I've learned that beating myself up doesn't make things happen for me any quicker, it's not effective, STOP IT. It also make no sense to be angry at myself for not knowing how to do a thing [whatever it maybe that this other artist is excelling at].

Comparing yourself with other artists isn't logical, isn't practical, there is no good side to it unless you're doing it critically in which case you aren't beating yourself up, you're analyzing how to improve.

All of us are not created in a vacuum nor do we come from the same backgrounds. Each person has learned art differently and has had different experiences. It makes no sense with that in mind, to take what another artist has over me personally. I can achieve certain milestone levels by simply learning and doing. Doubt and jealous will only sour the process and impede progress. Don't compare yourself with others.

TLDR- Don't compare yourself with others. Don't compare yourself with others. Don't compare yourself with others.

I'm not so much a creator as a reader (I have my own novel in progress but no comics) but I do know that a big part of it is realizing that no two people will have the same style. They might have similar styles, but not the same style. I'm subbed to 289 comics, and every creator has a different style (many of my series are by creators with multiple series, so obviously the style for those comics are going to be the same....)

It's perfectly alright to admire and want to draw like someone else, that's a part of life. The thing is realizing that no matter how hard you try, your art will never be the same as theirs. (random comparison time) It's kind of like handwriting in that regard. I think that many kids try to copy their parents' (or older siblings or teachers or etc) handwriting and rarely try to develop their own. In the course of trying to copy the other handwriting, they develop their own which is just as good. I know that I tried to copy my father's handwriting (and still wish that mine was a little more like his but meh) My mother has told me how similar our handwriting is, and upon looking closer I can see the similarities, but it is so much easier to see the differences....which leads me to another point (I'm rambling guys, sorry...it's 1 am for me)

If you can't help but compare your work to someone else's, look for the similarities instead of the differences. It will make you feel better about your work, I can all but guarantee it.

I'm going to go to bed now...let's see how much sense this actually makes when I read it again tomorrow XD

I noticed that people generally seem fine with comparing their own art with art by seniors and big names who have been at it for years because they aspire to be like them some time in the future. But when it comes to people close to their age or younger who appear better at drawing, that's when some people fall into this spiral of self doubt. Thoughts like "Am I not doing enough?" and "I've been drawing as long as the other person. Am I simply not good at it?" may pop up.

I can't exactly tell anyone to stop comparing themselves to others because that's a very hard thing to do to some, and everyone is wired differently. Comparing is a pretty natural thing we do whether we realise it or not -- it's part of our learning process.

What to do then? Well, if it ends up crippling your progress, try to avoid looking at the other creator's work completely but temporarily (until you feel confident again). Instead, look at other works of art (doesn't matter what media it is) that have different styles as yours so it's not easy for you to compare your work with. Who knows, those might be a good influence to your art.

It's hard but all you need to do is look at your art from a few years ago, and then look at your art today. The only thing that matters is the progress YOU'VE made as an artist. Whenever I am feeling like my art isn't good, or that I'm stagnating, I just look at something just from the previous year and I can tell I've improved.

People grow differently. Your experience is completely different from anyone elses. You WILL get there. You just have to keep striving to improve. Look at their art and instead of saying "I'll never be that good" say "I WILL be that amazing some day and I WILL surpass them". Its great motivation. Let them motivate you to do better.

I never wanted to become a comic artist until a year ago. I was just a dead-end artist living a content life and a 8-5 job. Until I had a story in my mind I wish someone would tell. Then I realized, I have the time and negligible artistic skills to visually tell it myself. The truth is knowing my specific and unique reason for wanted to create a comic and valuing it has become the driving force behind improving and making comic art as opposed to achieving a dream that's already been sold.