Ohhh, now I understand...in a word, yes? Kind of...I think you misinterpreted my words.
I said the romance tropes in fiction aimed at teens/tweens often contain harmful messages about romance: stalking, obsessing, having to "convince" the object of your affection and "prove yourself", etc.
It doesn't happen in all YA and it's certainly not a problem unique to that market, but it's far from uncommon. This is something I truly believe, and if you have a problem with that belief then your annoyance is justified.
HOWEVER, that doesn't mean I agree that YA should be banned, and the arguments I presented in favor of that position were not my own, as I said. I just wanted to make the distinction clear.
On a slightly unrelated note, I think some of y'all are misunderstanding what 'clickbait' is...an incendiary or dramatic title does not automatically make something 'clickbait'; that word implies deception. Trying to draw people into reading about an issue that is otherwise mundane.
I was just being literal...the commenter wrote that YA should be banned, and I wanted to start a thread to discuss that comment. It's...perfectly natural to title the thread after the topic of discussion; I wasn't trying to trick anyone or make this seem like something it wasn't. =/