Here is the problem with the red pill. Does your fantasy world have conflict? Does it have adventure? Then it would be horrific to actually live there. Even cutesy settings like Wonderland, Oz, and Equestria are deadly dangerous as often as not. You would want to go to a place with abundant resources, no political nor ethnic boundaries, and few to no natural dangers -- a boring as paint drying world ill suited for stories.
The most comfortable and safest setting I can recall in fiction is the world of Edwardian Country England in books like Pride and Prejudice, but even those were koozie because they focused exclusively on the wealthiest 5% of one small country while ignoring the rest of the globe.
I think I will pass on both.