Personally I always get upset no matter how the critique is delivered. You could be as nice and sugarcoating as possible and my feelings would still get hurt.
I suppose it’s because I’m already painfully aware of my own shortcomings and when people point out those things I just think “what’s the point in improving” because I already work to improve the thing and it’s still not any good.
Or you know, like the other person doesn’t know how hard I’ve already worked to improve but like all I see is a negative comment rather than praise for how far I’ve come from where I started.
Does that make sense? Then of course you just have your personal peeves from people like “boobs too big” and I just wanna say “tell that to my 34G tiddies, bitch”. I mostly get that indirectly tho, like people crapping on the concept of women having tig ol bitties in comics or whatever - suggesting only pervy men make those characters and then these people reduce the character to just fanservice, which says a lot more about them than it does the creator of the characters.
Hm, anyway I actually respond better to harsher criticism because I dig in and won’t relent to it. Nice critique always makes me feel bad for disagreeing with the person giving the critique, because they’re coming from a well meaning place and are trying to be helpful.
I think my main issue is tho - I didn’t ask for critique or criticism, so don’t give it to me.
THAT SAID, I’m actually more open to critique when it comes to my writing because I have no idea what I’m doing and all I can tell is that it’s not good.
Insulting my work, however, I enjoy - it lights a fire under my ass and makes me want to work even harder just to piss off that person.