YES GO FOR IT
Well, it's not my phrase, but I'll do my best: if you define toxic masculinity as all the harmful things men do to "prove" that they're men, then I'd respectively define toxic femininity as all the harmful things women do to "prove" that they're women (people have given lots of great examples already~).
So yes, it's about stereotypes, but it's a little deeper than that in the sense that a very large portion of the human population, consciously or sub-consciously, believes that these things are normal, okay, and/or even biologically imperative. =/
I hope all the people mentioning modern feminism are joking. Either way, I don't find it very funny.
Yes, there are very cruel and mean people posing as feminists out there, but that doesn't mean that's "what feminism has become". The worst extremes of any segment of a population do not get to redefine the identity of a population. How would you like it if others lumped you in with rotten people who used your ideologies as an excuse to spread hatred?
TL;DR, legitimate modern feminists DO exist. Those who say all men should die and pretend that's feminism are not included in that category.
@lunaartemisasama
Why does your post not have at least 50 more likes???