It's a difficult business to make a living off of—long hours, overtime, little time off, and low pay,
Weebs never think about any of this when they start getting Move to Japan dreams. Even as an EFL teacher you're going full out for little pay. They just can't comprehend that life in Japan is a dull grind for most everyone.
You also need to be fluent in Japanese, like native level.
Aye. I never graduated past talking like a toddler (N5), but I knew a few polyglots who were great at languages who were N1. Most expats I knew barely qualified for N3 at best. Language learning is hard as hell.
Let me lay this down: Japanese women, no matter where in the social order, choose men on the promise that they'll work their fingers to the bone so she can quit her day job. Men are a work horse/ source of income/ retirement plan and if you can't do that from day one, you won't be getting married.
Rich indulgent wife? You might as well be asking for a unicorn.
A series of Japanese partners with a racial fetish? More likely.