The guy in that video made an excellent observation, but inho he did a terrible job of presenting it.
First of all, his first and primary example of the trope, Tron Legacy, the story doesn't really reflect the trope he describes. If I remember that movie correctly (and granted it was kind of forgettable), the male lead was equally as naive about the world inside the computer as the female lead was about the world outside the computer. Most of the movie took place inside.
When he does get around to defining his trope, I immediately thought of Jeff Bridges in Star Man. Towards the end he does acknowledge that the trope can be gender reversed right when he shows Star Man, but he calls this reversal "very rare." I call shenanigans. The naive artificial man is super common in science fiction, moreso than the naive artificial woman. Yeah, as often as not that artificial man is sexualized. It was Stallone, not Bullock, who was naked in Demolition Man. For every My Stepmother is an Alien, there's a Terminator.