Disclaimer: This is simply my own opinion and I don't expect everyone to agree with it. We can debate in the replies if you want though.
So, I've lately noticed this general trend around the collaboration category(I'm not talking about all of the posts there, just some). Many people attempting to collaborate don't really know how to correctly form a deal that suits both them and the other person.
Recently, I have taken the time to help out some new creators with being free AI art restriction because I thought that it would be a good idea to use my skills to benefit others and to earn some credit. I'm not mentioning names here, but I offered to help out this one person for free and was disappointed in their attitude.
The idea of collaboration is to work together and not have a hierarchal order. No one's the boss in a collaboration unless clearly defined when the two or more people struck the deal. This person I tried to help out literally accepted my offer after reviewing my portfolio, but kept expressing dissent at my skills. This other person(not mentioning names) might be reading this right now, but I'll happily show my concern to them.
To get a clear idea of what was going on to show everyone who is reading, I'll quote something they said via a screenshot for proof.
As you see, I tried to respond politely as possible because I could understand that most people are very obsessed with having the best they could possibly have(me included), but I was still a bit put off by their attitude.
Honestly, I don't want to put any blame on the other person, but I really hope that we, as a community, can at least try to be more cooperative and less harsh on each other.
However, it's not just this type of attitude that kind of ticks me off, it's also the types of collaborations people tend to prefer to form
An IRL acquaintance of mine(again, no names because they're all entitled to their own privacy) accepted a commission recently and was really pissed off because the other person kept demanding without providing anything themselves.
My friend here was doing the whole thing for free, but the other person(someone totally new to the industry even though they had skills) kept asking for my friend's work.
I can understand this whole concept of "I need verification of your skills since I've already verified mine", but seriously? I got to read their messages, and I have to say, it also pisses me off to see this type of treatment for something unpaid.
Another thing I want to mention in this thread is the divide between writers and artists on the platform and how it affects collaborations. To most readers, a comic is indefinitely more interesting and stunning than a novel. I can totally relate and understand that, but in collaborations, it's upsetting to see that same type of discrimination.
Some people consider writing to be "easier" than drawing, so writers often end up getting paid less(especially on comic collaborations).
If you are doubting my validity, I assure you that I am NOT new to the industry even though this account was created less than two months ago and I have met real people, whether online or in person, who have either gotten underpaid for their comic scriptwriting or they have gotten discriminated against because of their art style.
I know that the world is not a kind place where someone messing around without real actual skills could win a fortune, but I hope this topic brings at least some awareness to this issue.
I sincerely hope that everyone who reads this will at least try to improve on their methods of collaboration, and by that, I mean increased respect for each other and the willingness to treat everyone as equals no matter their profession, art style, etc.
Again, you can take my words as a grain of salt if you'd like and I would respect your opinion(s), but I hope people will respect mine in return.
I'm also sorry if I dampened your mood, I know I sound like a sentimental boomer right now(I'm not, trust me)
Also, since I put this into the Questions category, let me know what you think about this topic, do you agree or disagree with me? I know there are people with much more experience than me here on the forums, and I'd like to hear your thoughts 