Once you have sexual intercourse with someone, you are now married to each other and must own up to it.
That being said... There must be a minimum of 6 months waiting period before having penetration sex. Ideally 1 year but minimum 6 months.
Yeah you can have phone sex and cyber sex within the infatuation period... But ideally don't. Because even those 2 methods of sex establish some sort of soul tie.
Why? Because if you can't even have the patience to contain your lust toward one another, how will you have the patience to deal with problems you'd have in the future?
It's guaranteed you'd have fights as a couple. I don't care how much you think you're "in love". Most likely your head is in the clouds and are not thinking straight.
My wife and I been married 5 years and we had to put up with a lot...
1) my narcissistic parents who are racist to white people. Believe all white people are lazy and self entitled. And white women are gold digging whores.
2) immigration
3) each other's emotional baggage. Moreso on my end because I have PTSD.
4) her health issues. That cost money you know... And she can't get a job because of them...
5) me jumping from job to job. Money issues.
6) little cultural ticks. I don't like when white people talk in a loud aggressive manner and point. I find pointing the pointer at me more offensive than the middle finger. Or the "come here" gesture with palm up and pointer moving towards you. Fastest way to pick a fight in the Philippines is to do just that to someone...
She don't like it when Asians don't reply to instant messages and leave her hanging without saying goodbye... and our numb manner of speaking. And talking in our language leaving her out of the conversation.
7) small things... Little food preferences and small disagreements doctrinally in our Christian faith.
Yeah... If we both had a relationship founded on complete lust... It woulda been over so fast!
The media, government, and education system FAILED in teaching selflessness. Reason why so many people divorce nowadays...
/End rant