I have no access to kids and see none day to day so researching little boys and girls has been a weird experience. I don't know what the ages look like or how they talk or what kind of things they do and how intelligent they are etc. so my search history was this weird, nervous journey along the lines of 'seven year old girl' 'seven year old boy' 'ten year old boy?' 'five year old boy?' 'kids on the beach' 'pages from child's diary' 'interview with a seven year old' 'interview with a five year old' 'how do kids talk' 'children arguing' 'kids play' 'child skeleton' 'child height at seven'
I was just like what am I doing?!
Also, I'm not very close to my dad, never have been, and it suddenly dawned on the other day that I genuinely have no idea how dads behave around their daughters- like how they talk or if they touch or anything- and I felt waaay too pathetic to google it. And then I was like...I could text people and ask, but that'd be so damn weird. In the end I settled for the slightly less weird option of observing fathers around me and watching a lot of films about families. Bob's Burgers was also there to save the day. God I hope it turns out alright.