This might piss some folks off but my hottest writing opinion is that using common tropes absolutely can be a great tool. However, when they become overused every story looks like one another with just different character names.
Now for the real tea: tapas novels are literally like wattpad originals with it being the same plots over and over again. The stories thay are unique and deserve actual recognition are buried underneath and never get a chance to be forseen unless they get lucky.
Also this is a super hot take but, especially when you're learning how to really write, it's okay for your first draft to be your final draft. No one is expecting perfection first time around, especially if you're still learning. You can have a good story without having to go back and rewrite a second draft.