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Apr 2019

You know, for as often as I've had it be a comment on my comic (on Webtoons specifically), I thought this would be more well known. Haha.

I've seen some references to gay people walking faster than average. But I've never seen this specific phrase. And I have no idea where the idea comes from (and I am one of those gay people).

Maybe it's a fujoshi thing? Kinda like the ones I was complaining about earlier.

On that note, regarding very specific sayings said in groups of people. This is one I ran into a few times when I was drawing a comic with anthro characters.

"That's speciesist" followed by a lecture on 'racism and representation' when furries are mad that you didn't draw what animal they associate with in your comic. I'm to busy dealing with racism and lack of representation in real life, I don't have fuking time to play fake racism with you guys.

I've only heard that term used sardonically... I cannot believe people are actually using it legitimately (although, I've heard some bizarre shit, so I wouldn't be completely surprised tbh).

I wouldn't say it's a common saying, but basically when something great is spoke about in the lane of "the author is so talanted!" "this is simply magic" - like it didn't take hours or even years of hard work and dedication to get a great result. I know that people don't mean (usually) to devalue the effort, but it grinds my gears in the "they have a natural gift and therefore it was easy for them" way.

From anyone who has suffered crippling failure: "I'll be back."

I'm in two minds with this one. I dislike seeing hard work considered as just good luck, however, I also remember I went through university with extremely minimal work, but can't play properly an instrument after years and years of practice. We need to work to get a great result, but we also do have some better aptitudes at things rather than others. I'd feel like a jerk telling someone that everyone can get a PhD with little overall work ; but I would also hate if someone tell me I would be better at playing music if only I had practiced.

Plus, I've seen people praising the hard work more in the way to say "obviously you had to work extra hard compared to average, because you are not very good at this", pretty derogatory..

So.. At the end, whatever people say we don't really know what they mean or why they say it like the way they do.. Personally I would not react badly to any comment either praising my abilities or the amount of work I put in the praised thing, and just hope it was with good intentions.

"you have to work hard(er)" -> yeah, like I've been just slacking off all the time.

"You spend too much time in front of your computer" -> yes, I need it to work.

"Let's touch base tomorrow/next week/etc" -> in my experience it just means the person saying it doesn't really care and just wants to supervise or pretend they are involved.

I see where you're coming from and, yeah some people are more predisposed to some skills. But being a "talented" kid can also put extra pressure later in life, when EXP stops being gained as easy as it used to and can cripple self esteem and halt growth. Also it can discourage people from working on something they love, because people keep saying it requires "talent", like drawing, sculpting, music. Sure, not everybody can become a Great Artist, but most can to a satisfactory level of thier personal interest. And if they want to advance - they keep improving, even if they don't have a god-given cheatcode that lets their brain spot composition easier, or something like that.

Like, "Can you please pass the salt at the speed of gay?"