Human resolve. We are masters at failing, for we believe that in the thousands of times we go down there will be that one time that everything works out.
Also of course there's always someone better. There will always be someone better. That's not meant as a discouraging factor it's just a fact of life. There will also be someone worse (not meant as an encouraging factor per say but just a fact).
So don't worry about those people. You can learn from them and all but you do you. What is success to you? To fulfill the impossible? To be like that someone? or to know that at the end of the day you've done everything that you could?
Goals are very important to me. They're not impossible, dreams are. When it comes to my writing I know I'm just so so. I know there are thousands upon thousands of better people than me. That's a fact. I also know I'm improving. I also know that every little comment readers make on my story makes my day. I know that no matter what that I've tried and that I love what I'm doing. That's most important to me. It's why I write.
And for you. You do what you love. You make things that you want to, you create your stories that you want to share, and you draw your art. bc thats what matters and should matter to you. ️
Great point about "...We're not on earth long enough..." fortunately maybe, human short lifespan is what make them so persistent about their effort. I always wondered if humanity would be the same in terms of ethos and resilience if they were given much longer life span?
"There may be someone better at art than me, but only I can make the stories I wanna make come true." thumbs up this
I do understand being invested and loving with your creation Maybe in the same way in a parent loving their imperfect children, a person who is loving someone with flaws, or the weird dog at shelter a person decides to adopt; even though other than them people disagree with their love, they still show it.
I hope you can become one!
Not true.
I am the best at being me. I am the undisputed champion ....of being...me.
a) You only feel this way because you are not doing anything that is uniquely you. You are indeed, just following a trend/path/curve and trying to do what everyone else is (already and currently) doing. So much so that you can compare two things that should be objectively impossible to compare. There should only be subjective opinions.
What DO YOU LIKE better than what?
b) Styles make fights. Anyone can like any style over another. Anyone can like some aspect over some other aspect. Anyone can give more weight to a certain aspect than someone else. That's why contests have judges. Even things that are timed have judges involved. Your comic and art, no matter good or bad you think it is, is just a style. It's either a developed style or it's not. Either you've mastered your style or you haven't. Once you get past the entry-level technical concerns, it's all artistic judgments.
c) The best don't always win. Persistence and tenacity are qualities of winners. In any race, you run your lane and don't look sideways- that slows you down. Run as fast as you can and worry about being faster (or better) than you were yesterday.
d) The "best" and favorite are two different things. You don't need to be the best, but being a good number of people's favorite will get you in some important races. That amount of people will determine your lane position. Your business moves [behind the scenes] can give you a head start, but that's another topic for a different day.
e) Go back and re-read a).
Thank you for making the forum topic. When I see the work of others, I get inspired if I believe that the work is better than mine. It shows me that there are higher levels to try to reach. Without seeing better work from others, I might think that I'm the best and see no need to improve. This is similar to working out to me. I get motivated when I discover from someone else that they do different exercises or more repetitions of exercises to get in better shape than me or have a better physique than me. I prefer to see better work from others than for me to be the best.
I'm reminded of a poem I once heard that I really wish I had a copy of. Your floor may be my ceiling. It isn't about who is better than you, or meeting someone else's standards. It is about doing something to the best of your ability. It's about self worth. Only you know if you did the best you could, or said that's good enough and gave up. In the end, the only opinion that matters is yours.Only you can say you are a failure or a success. Only you can truly know if you sat on the floor, or in a chair, or got on a ladder and hit your ceiling.
i get a lot of comments saying how much they looove the way i draw the wolf/wolves
or how cute or cool i draw this character. or how pretty the way i draw the eyes... etc.
if my readers love the weird plot/premise/the way i draw things as they are
then this kind of support is more than enough to keep me going : >
even though i'm more than aware that there are many others a million times better than me.
this is just
good enough for me
The reason I continue drawing webcomics despite knowing there are people out there better than me is because STUFF YOU, I LIKE MAKING THEM, WEBCOMICS BANZAI (just kidding I love you, but webcomics banzai nevertheless).
My main goal here is that I'm trying to leave behind something meaningful, in the hopes that other people will read my art and find something meaningful.
Mortality is scary, so I'm using a backdoor method of keeping myself alive a little bit longer if I ever die early. So in this sense, it doesn't matter if someone is better than me at something - as long as I get the chance to make something and present it to the world and have people respond to it in meaningful ways, it's all g. Yep, all g. I'm sorry, I just finished reading Ashita no Joe and man it is so hype, here's an image:
I am aware that there's always someone better, but I enjoy what I create and try to improve on the way not to be better than that other person, but for my own work to be better. Comparing yourself to other people is a shortcut to a burnout, since you'll always be frustrated you're not as skilled as that other artist.
When you find someone better, you learn from that person. Maybe you won't ever be the best, but you'll be much closer than if you simply gave up.
Almost 10 years ago, a friend and I got one of our projects critiqued at Comic Con. We had been working on it for close to 2 years, and we were REALLY proud of what we had accomplished. We got shot down, however, and were basically told to mimic their best-selling author at the time.
I was FURIOUS, and that anger led to determination, which led to me redrawing everything we had at that point. I bypassed their artist and looked at even better ones to see where I could improve. As a result my artwork and storytelling are infinitely better today than they were back then. I'm happy I tried, because that's more than most people will ever do.
I think as a creator I think it's important not to try and compare yourself to who is better than you. Yes, there will always be someone better than you BUT that doesn't mean what you're doing isn't good. It doesn't mean that your work won't impact someone, and it won't bring joy to whoever is reading it.
As long as your making a solid effort to do the best you can and take whatever opportunities you can to improve, then that's all that matters. Being a creator isn't some massive contest (unless ya know you're actually in a contest) of someone has to be #1, it's about doing what you love and bringing something into the world that someone will enjoy or even just doing it for yourself! It doesn't even have to be about anyone else. If it moves and inspires you then you're doing what you should be.
Comparing yourself to others can be a positive and negative thing. Some can use it to motivate themselves, while it can be very damaging for others. With that in mind, do what best for you and just keep creating.
I like to subscribe to the two cakes theory:
Even if what you make is 'inferior' to whatever is 'superior', someone somewhere out there enjoys the stuff that you do. Just think of it as adding another cake to the party. Who knows? It might just be the work that someone falls in love with or inspires them.
And also, even if your work isn't great now, it will be in the future if you keep learning and keep working on your craft. Your work will always be 'inferior' if you stagnate and don't do anything to improve or imagine! The 'bad' work you do now has plenty of merits, including building the foundation of better work in the future.
So don't lose heart, creators!