Most beautiful thing I've heard today. 
That is very nice of you @therosesword
Really love that you posted this. I can totally relate to that feeling of despair and even considering dropping the work altogether. I'm sure a lot of others on here can relate to this as well, unfortunately. I think what a lot of us youngsters struggle with is trying to make first and second drafts perfect. We're wanting to skip the learning process and edits/rewrites/redraws. Sometimes we focus too much on what we haven't accomplished rather than celebrate what we have made.
Nothing's going to be perfect the first few times. It takes some trial and error. Sitting in despair will never help improve anything either. We just gotta push through the rougher drafts and periods of no reads/views. There will always be good days and bad days. Can't always focus on the bad ones.
I was raised to believe that older generations raise up the younger. I haven't got much to offer, but I try.
Pssst... a lot of us older ones, too. It's, for lack of a better way to put it, a holy grail.
Very true and one of the hardest things to learn. I still have my demons there. Now instead of trying to banish them, I try and have them to tea to kill them with kindness.
Above everything... THIS! this is the most important of all things I think. Because I'm older I have a longer list. But one day I sat down and thought of things I'd done, both when I was younger and as I got more settled. Frankly, I blew myself away. And then I scolded myself for not realizing at the time just how much I WAS doing. No matter how insignificant an accomplishment may seem, you still did it. It adds to the whole.
As an old fisherman I used to know would say: ten small fish make as fine a meal as one big fish.
Thanks for this post! I’ve been struggling on and off if what I’m doing is right. Comics and digital illustrations take so much time out of my life. Sometimes it’s hard to tell if I wasted my time, especially since it’s nearly impossible to get noticed. I’d hate to quit because I like drawing, I like writing, I like my characters, and the people who do like my work might actually be worth catering to.
I think the huge problem is that people are expected to be successful as soon as possible. You always hear praises about those who were the “youngest X to do Y” or minors who have successful published works and museum worthy masterpieces. 17 year olds have to quickly decide on colleges with gap years and community college being frowned upon. 4 years from then you’re supposed have graduated and making bank in your field. All this makes it feel inferior to be almost 30+ and still nothing. It can be difficult to accept that it takes more time for some of us to find “success”.
This is so sweet. I'm not that young-young, but I'm not that old too, and I still sometimes feel the same.. I tried to draw to release from the stress, not getting more stress, yet I feel 10 years older since started published things. The fact that very few people appreciate your hard work is really disturbing. I know we all different people with different tastes, but I hope we can at least encourage each other when we down, just like this thread.
@ButterflyEmpress I can totally relate to you. 
note: Before very rare to read prediction. Now, I even listening to a tarot card reader while drawing or as a lullaby. Regardless it will come true or not, what I need to hear from them is their encouraging words. Just that.
Frankly, I hate that. So many people are pushed into something before they're ready. Also there's the idea of "success." Everyone has a different idea of what success is. I could go on about this subject for pages and pages.
No, you did not waste your time. You like what you've done. You like what you've created and you have people who DO like what you've done. You have the beginnings of a solid base.
Also, if you feel as if you're progressing, learning more, honing your skills, how can that be a waste of time?
It's not, and anyone who tells you it is is wrong.
This is the perspective I use for myself... how many billions of people are in the world? If 20 people like my work that means there are billions more out there and that means there are billions of chances to grow.
Please remember this, all of you...
Every single one of you is worth it. You are all worthy of success in whatever shape or form you deem success to be. You are worth the time and effort you put into your work and most of all, your work is worth doing.
Never, ever forget that.
Believe me there are thousands of creatives out there that you don't know and they don't know you but they still wish you well and that you achieve your goals.
@therosesword awesome words of encouragement here. Love it.
I'd like to add something I gleaned from when I was first looking into making webcomics. I read that it can take approximately THREE years for a webcomic to make any sort of waves. And that is with consistent releases. Don't give up after a week or two. Just don't. Stay committed, even when it's hard.
Obviously, not everything you attempt will stick. But at the very least, keep plugging away, and if you need to take a break, do it. (Even though that's something I never do XD)
But try to have mercy on yourself, don't put a ton of pressure on your mind. Use small goals to move forward. Even the tiniest step is progress. Five minutes on a panel every day will add up eventually.
My main advice is, don't give up. Slow down if you have to, tweak what you need. But don't give up entirely, don't let failure define you.
I'm in my 30s, but this gives even me some hope. I was actually going to throw in the towel this month and stop my novel, when the universe slapped me and gave me blessings in return. I took it as a clear sign I'm not supposed to give up, so I'll gather my wits and try again.
It's so easily to reel in people with just my art, but my writing... 
I appreciate this post. I truly do. Thank you for giving a glimmer of hope.
So much THIS. Thank you @nathanKmcwilliams. So many words of wisdom here. Thank you for adding them to the thread. Everyone needs to hear this.
Be kind to yourself. Read what @nathanKmcwilliams said just above your post.
I'm coming from a place that was so filled with self doubt and negativity. I used to hate every single thing I drew. It took me about 5 years to drag myself out of that mentality, it sucks, and it's hard. But it's doable, and the way I broke out was through small steps.
Also I found people that I could trust with what I was going through. This is crucial, there are some things that just cannot be done all alone, we are not islands. It took time, but I let these people help me grow by listening to their advice, and observing how they behaved. Cannot trust everyone, but there are people that are trustworthy, that will help, even indirectly sometimes.
A very important component and for those who think there aren't any such people, there are. You have to learn whom to trust which is additionally hard. For myself it has always been the quiet ones. Not the ones who bluster around and make a lot of noise about how much they support you. It's those quiet ones that always seem to be there when you need them the most.
Thanks for this post! I feel like we all need to read this at one point or another.
It can be disheartening sometimes when things don't take off immediately but as someone who is post millennial pre gen-Y you have to remind yourself that you have plenty of time to hone your craft.
Just tell yourself that Bram Stoker didn't write Dracula until he was 50 and Dracula couldn't fly until he was dead.
You've got time to improve in this life and next. No one hits the jugular on the first go so don't despair. Whatever you create is wonderful and sharing it with others is a bold step that took courage and pride in your work.
Keep it weird and stay safe everyone. 
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