Romance writers unite, lol! * high-five *
But yeah, somehow people seem to forget that life is both tragedy AND comedy and tend to glorify stories where everything is so grimdark it seems permanently stuck in a black hole. A lot of it is simple pretentiousness, I might add. Like, "marvel at how edgy and raw this story is, everyone is abused and killed in horrible ways and then a stray dog pisses on their dead body, what a splendid nihilistic analogy of the misery of human existence!". Snort. The thing is, most people are well aware that life is sometimes cruel and often unfair. A lot of people don't need a reminder of the problems they face and I think it's very wrong to mock them for needing escapism. After all, it is the easiest thing in the world to make someone feel bad but the opposite, the opposite is much harder.
As for the female characters, I suppose I wasn't very clear. It's not just the lack of women and diversity; the mainstream portrayals of female-centric stories are often hella problematic. To borrow from pop film culture, I want more Hunger Games, less Sucker Punch and NO 50 shades of shit at all!