@WintreKitty Agh! Yes. Duane. All of that. <3
I've got a big old crush on: Milo from Tripping Over You by Suzana Harcum and Owen White,
Sweet, funny, confident, artistic, romantic, plus that hair and those eyes? Yes.
and Cain from Starfighter by HamletMachine, (NSFW)

He's an asshole, cocky, mysterious, tough... but again: those dang eyes!
Personality-wise these two couldn't be more different... Hmm. Much can be said for confidence, it seems.
(And they're both from BL comics! My secret is exposed!)