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Jan 2021

First time I told it to people was when I was 8.
I never wanted to be popular or anything, it´s just something which is
a part of me, I´m a 24/7 artist. I write stories and songs, I draw comics,
I play instruments, I record, mix and master music, I design. I´m not interested
in other things and so it´s natural for me to talk about it when I meet people
when they tell me about their jobs, relationships, hobbies, houses, their dogs,
income, what they like to eat and drink and where they will spend their vacation

Aaah, I don't really tell anyone unless they're into it, like my friends who still actively read and write themselves. I might occasionally put a link up on my socials, but if I were doing a more er, sexy comic, they'll never know about it hahaha!

It'd be pretty hard to keep it secret. I'm from a small rural town, so the local paper has interviewed me a few times when I've placed in national comics competitions and run workshops in the area. My family and old school friends are very supportive of my work even though they tend to find manga and geek culture bewildering.
It'd probably be trickier for me if I made explicit/mature-rated work and not fairly family-friendly action and adventure stories. :sweat_02:

Uhhh idk what you mean by not young anymore, that's a vague description... But most people in my life (outside of online friends) know that I make a comic, not a lot of them read it because they simply have no interest in comics or webcomics for that matter. That's fine though, I don't really mind.

I don't like when my friends or my partner tells other people about my comic though, since it's an lgbt romcom and I don't want to have to deal with answering questions about it to people who don't see the point, for example if he mentions it to his older family members. He has also not read my comic though, just knows it exists.

I'm an adult, jobless, never attended any art school/course, not famous at all and I'm telling everyone what I'm doing because I don't care. And they don't care too, no one cares actually, everyone is too busy with their own lives, so I'm 'enjoying' my comic all alone.

Yeah! Though it's one of my biggest insecurities tbh. I don't know why it bothers me so much more to imagine my mom reading my work that however many hundreds of strangers. But pretty much all my friends know I at least have a webcomic, and a few that already read comics read mine fairly regularly. I kinda use Tham as beta readers too, since it's nice to have someone you can ask about the story in depth. But if someone has no interest in comics or art I don't tell them cus like.. why would I?

my one rule is that I don't talk too much about projects that are still in the works to them. So none of my friends know how the comic is actually gonna end. Except one who I told like three years ago when the idea first popped into my head, though I doubt she even remembers lol.

My friends, family and colleagues all know that I want to make a career change into illustration. So yeah, I tell them! Especially if they're curious about what type of illustration I aspire to do. Just today I was speaking with one of the other voice teachers, and she brought up how one of her daughters is a reluctant reader of regular novels, but will devour graphic novels. She'd seen me sketching a page and was really impressed.

It really hit home today that the field of illustration I want to work in is like a gateway drug to reading, for children who otherwise wouldn't enjoy reading. Feels good. :yellow_heart:

My direct Family knows it and some of my few friends -- they're very supportive in their own ways ^^
Some of my friends who have the same interest with me helps me in a way that they also share it among people they know who might be interested.
My direct family like my parents and siblings don't mind even if my comic are nsfw or the genre is a bit heavy ( I mean its BL lol) , they just support me to continue on or give me advice too.
My other relatives, supports my art (I do different types paintings, murals, and do graphics btw) however -- they don't know about my comic (because you know some relatives can be a bit judgy sometimes and stuff) so I don't let them know my pen name/ artist name :sweat_02:
but all in all, I feel thankful for them for supporting me in their own ways ^^

A few people I know irl do know I'm an artist but I've only shown some of my art to one close person. I don't really plan on changing it. (Actually, when someone wanted to see my work, I kinda panicked and had to think hard of an excuse why I won't do that... :blusht:) I like to keep my hobbies, interests and online life private, even if there's nothing to be ashamed of. Just introvert things, I guess.

But I'm also scared of being judged. My art is nothing impressive or something you could show in an art gallery, it's just silly gay cartoons and animes (the gay part could be debatable, but it's getting gayer these days, and that's one more reason to not show it irl - it's... not a very LGBT-supportive environment here). Also my stories are very personal to me, which makes the fear of being judged stronger.

I would say only a handful of my closest friends know I'm doing my webcomic! My boyfriend shared it on Facebook when I first started and a lot of mutual acquaintances/his friends commented on the post but none of them actually stuck around for it, so they know it exists but they don't know anything more.

My boss and coworkers all know about it. I work heavily in content creation/social media marketing so I've shared some of my experiences. It's a very relaxed environment so I felt comfortable sharing with them. I don't think any of them have actually read the comic but they follow me on Instagram and see some of the art related to it. They're all super supportive! My boss and supervisor is convinced that I'm going to get famous from it and end up leaving the company some day. I laugh at that but appreciate the confidence boost. :joy:

If it blows up, I might share it on my Facebook, but I don't really want irl people to know anything about me.

I know exactly how that feels.
Most of my friends are not interested in comics at all, they don´t know what I´m talking about and
they don´t even listen to me anymore which I can understand because they have zero interest in the
topic.
That´s why I use pages like Tapas to find people to talk about comics

Yeah. Just about every one I know, knows. My wife is the most supportive of it, she's always there and encouraging me to keep chasing my dream.

that's okay I mean I'm on my mid 20's but my IRL friends doesn't know about my gay comic lmao :joy::joy:
I keep mine privately, because I'm really shy showing them my work.
the only person who knows about my comic is my fiance, even though I make BL , he still supports me,
though everytime I try to tell him a scenario about my work, he always make faces, lmao :joy:

Yes because they help keep me going (whether or not they read it). I also enjoy talking about it, and bouncing ideas off of them. I don't so much talk about it with my parents though, but that is the way it is. XD

Yeah, my family and friends know. :grin:

Some are big fans of it, but for others, it's just not their cup of tea.

But one way or another they support me.

I haven't told coworkers or anything, but I've told my friends and family about it. The trick is getting them to actually read it!

Depends on the friend.

Some friends I can tell just fine. No issues.

Other friends I will not tell them, because if I tell them, every other fucking day I'll be getting messages from them along the lines of

"HEY I GOT THIS AMAZING COMIC IDEA THAT YOU SHOULD DRAW FOR ME"

sends really bad jokes or script "You can draw this for me right????? I see it going viral/BIG!"

"You know if you're ever looking for ideas for comics to draw I got THOUSANDS of them I can sell to you."

"Can you put my character in your comic?? Not as a background character, needs to be a main character, I just think you're story will be better if my character is in it proceeds to send me 500 page backstory on said character

"Ever think about publishing a MANGA?? I got the perfect script, think Promare, crossed with Attack on Titan, and then some Yuri on Ice to top it off :heart_eyes::heart_eyes::heart_eyes::heart_eyes::heart_eyes::heart_eyes::heart_eyes::heart_eyes::heart_eyes::heart_eyes::heart_eyes::heart_eyes::heart_eyes::heart_eyes::heart_eyes::heart_eyes::heart_eyes::heart_eyes::heart_eyes::heart_eyes::heart_eyes::heart_eyes::heart_eyes::heart_eyes::heart_eyes::heart_eyes::heart_eyes::heart_eyes::heart_eyes::heart_eyes::heart_eyes::heart_eyes::heart_eyes::heart_eyes::heart_eyes: It'll be bigger than Naruto. We'll make millions, 50/50 split."

"Have you ever thought about drawing FANFICS???? I think my fanfics will make GREAT comics!"

And like... I know these requests happen online too, but when you know a person IRL, they are FAR more pushy. I don't know if it's because they know an actual artist in real life or what but it is the most draining thing to deal with.

Then if I ignore them because they will not take no for an answer, (but only when they make those requests) I'm the one who's the asshole for ghosting them and being a bad friend.

Additional Note: THIS BS FUKING EVEN EXTENDS PAST MY OWN RELATIONSHIPS!!! AND WILL ATTEMPT TO GO THROUGH MY OTHER FRIENDSHIPS.

If my mom tells her friends that I draw comics, they will start harassing her with this same messages to send to me or they will add me on facebook and send me these requests. But it'll be so fuking out of touch like

"God gave you a gift, he wants you to draw comics for god I have the perfect script for you."

And it's like "Mam, I am not Christian and I draw gay comics to match my gay personality. Please find someone else to draw your bible comics for you."

Yeah I feel that. Most of my family can't be bothered to read it. "It's too hard to read." Some of the early pages sure...but it gets easier to read as I learned more XD

Dude! I haven't had the time to sit down and read through all of your pages yet, but the page that really got it's hooks in me was #43. What an epic page! Show em that one!

Oh, thanks dude! I've been meaning to check yours out too. I'll do it soon!