Things about you, that annoy you

[Tanako]

I change my mind wayyyy too much its sad really. very inconstant and I get bored easily. I would come up with cool idea for a comic. write about it, like 10 paragraph then wake up the next day and don't want any of it so sad. so what I do now is try to sleep on it for weeks and see how I feel in the next thee weeks or so. then if its still solid, ill look into it some more.

This is also the reason I don't work with scripts or story board. I end up tossing it and working with my head instead lol

[vothnthorvaldson]

I'm a bit like that too I must admit, but mostly for entertainment-oriented genres.
I like music to be more art than entertainment.
But I would not say I'm an elitist, because I'm actually happy when some artists manage to interest me to genres I don't like.
It often happens with prog metal, sometimes there are very pop influences but I actually like it.
I came to think any genre can be interesting if tackled by the right artist.

[nathanKmcwilliams]

@vothnthorvaldson
I think my biggest thing that bothers from genres I don't like is both musical talent, and lyrical content.

As a general rule of thumb, if the lyrics are about sex, love, or partying, I'm instantly out. Couple that with musical ability that doesn't challenge my mind, or present an interesting tone, I'm done, gone, and nothing will change my mind.

The only pass I give in those instances are to comedy groups, in which they lampoon or satirize those topics.

[arcojawa]

It's difficult to stand up for myself. I've somehow managed to have a few of those hyper-extroverted, "if things aren't done the way I want them done then you are clearly bad or possibly evil" type people in my life and I wish I had an easier time actually pushing back against them.

I recently actually yelled at one of them and things got worse because of it, but they're basically making life suck for everyone around them and so... they kind of need to be yelled at. I dunno, workplace bullies are a pain. There's no practical way to deal with them.

[vothnthorvaldson]

Same! That's exactly what I mean!
That's why when a genre that has a bit indigent music and boring/unrelatable themes get re-worked by a talented artist from another genre, I can like it. Lyrics if any would be very different, and indigent music can be complexified, layered, altered etc but still keep markers of that specific genre.
It's actually fascinating to me.

[spicy_sweets]

I'm real awkward with conversations, especially on the phone. sometimes I dunno how to end them or keep them going properly.

[mariusthered]

not sure how to advise here, the world i grew up in is so different now, I honestly feel i just came out of cryogenics with some people around me. It's like everyone demands attention these days. maybe you should learn to play chess, it give you brain training of staying ahead of people.

I'm real awkward with conversations, especially on the phone.

hell yer, me too, especially if i get an answer phone , brain freeze ..dont even know my name age and address..um! hang up!

[imiogri]

Overambition and hyperfixation. I get really excited about things I pour way too much money, time and effort into in really short bursts. Then after a while I drop it and feel like shit about wasting my time and looking like an idiot lmao... (Then I'm also incredibly socially inept)

[DiegoPalacios]

Being confident is not a bad thing, it`s an awesome thing as long as the person is kind

[LCT_m_a_d]

I feel selfish for flat out asking for critiques and guidance.

Also I have an obsession with bland and normal stuff.

[qwerty]

That I am stuck in a body that needs to eat and sleep all the time or it'll die

[mariusthered]

if you want to swap it with my mums body that is failing and constantly in pain i'm sure she will agree the swap. enjoy what you have they dont last!

[lorphis]

First, I'm loud. Holy shit, sometimes I just can't stop talking and my volume is uncontrollable. I pity anyone who has to deal with me when I'm in a snit.
Second, I'm lazy. I don't waste all of my free time but there's no denying that if I finally manage to limit the time I spend on my phone I can make more pages every week.
Third, I have a bunch of bad habits but the main thing that I hate currently is my bad posture. I sit like effing L from Death Note and my back is suffering but I can't stop, I have to constantly remind myself to sit properly.

[Cavechan]

The thing that annoys me the most is my voice. My voice sounds like a girl's voice but it's not really feminine at all. I LOVE to sing karaoke and when I sing my voice sounds mostly fine to my ears. Like perfect? No. But okay. Listenable.

But then when I listen to a recording of my voice, it's so, so terrible. Even just normal talking, it's terrible. Rarely at work I use the phone and it records the conversation and sometimes I'll have to listen to a recording and it's sooo horrible! Even my customer service voice is terrible.

[qwerty]

As far as I'm aware being uncomfortable with your voice when you hear it recorded is a really common phenomenon, since we're all used to hearing our own voices differently than everyone else due to the sound traveling directly through our heads. I don't dislike my voice (except that it's pretty monotone) but whenever I hear it recorded I can't help but cringe really hard haha

[indagold]

I'm impulsive, socially awkward, mildly paranoid, hyper, poor memory and cannot pay attention sometimes at all. Probably all related to all my medical problems, god how I wish I was healthy haha i'll go to grave saying disabilities are a curse and shouldn't be celebrated.

[dawgofdawgness]

Sometimes I can be pretty loud and swear a LOT around my friends, and that tendency paired with my annoying voice is pretty bad. Also when I speak my vocab can be pretty limited, especially when I'm exhausted from not enough sleep or something lol. I end up saying things are "cursed" a lot when I can't think of any other adjective to describe something. Gets old fast lmao.

[Rodimus13]

That I get really down and hard on myself.

[Strontium]

It's not a personality trait, but my right ear makes a lot of ear wax and it builds up and makes my ear hurt XC

[yansusu]

Oh god, I had that problem with my voice too! Unfortunately, I often have to listen to recordings of my voice nowadays since I have to use a speech-to-text program for writing and it often doesn't catch what I'm saying so I have to play the recordings back to myself to figure out what was the deal with a paragraph. I cringed really hard at the beginning but it got better with time and I'm mostly able to listen to it now without feeling anything special. I think it's mostly a matter of getting used to the sound. The more I listened to it, the less strange it sounded. I also tried with speaking in a different volume or with a different stress and it seemed to help a bit. Maybe you could try something like that too?