When I was younger I would go out of my way to look for something to ship in anything I read/watched/etc, but now a days, I find myself just casually shipping something (at first) then looking back and wondering "HOW DID THIS HAPPEN?"
The worst for me is when it was originally supposed to be canon, and then they chickened out at the last second (referring to Yosuke and the protagonist from Persona 4 here. Seriously, look it up. It was supposed to be a thing.) The reason these are so fun to ship, is cause, since they pulled out at the last second, they kept allll the rest of the stuff for it. I.E. Flirting, lingering gazes, lingering touches, blah blah blah. I realize, writing it out makes me sound pretty damn crazy, and maybe I am. I just really like the idea of people being happy together in that way, and maybe that makes me weird.
I also think it's the fault of the way some people write friendships. I can sit there and go "Uh huh, yeah, no, friends aren't THAT close, nice try." Ban from Get Backers literally has a freaking Ginji radar and can tell NO MATTER WHERE HE'S AT, if he's hurt or something. It's ridiculous.
Ironically, I actually find it frustrating when people read my comic and ship people that aren't supposed to be shipped together. I have plans, I was pretty sure I stated it from the beginning who you're supposed to ship. But eh, to each their own I guess, and just have fun, and don't yell at me when it doesn't happen. Cause I warned you. Though, I'd be willing to draw some silly shipping stuff, if requested.
Wow, that was a longer post than I meant for.