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Apr 2021

With romance, at least for me, it’s making it believable that these characters would fall for each other and make good partners.
1. The easiest thing to do is make the characters fall for each others kind gestures, (Examples: A rescues B from monsters, B comforts A when ill) but that can come across as corny and bland, possibly catering to niceguy/girl syndrome.
2. If you give the soon-to-be couple flaws to overcome, having them butt heads and such, they might come across as a toxic couple. ‘Cause if A is being a jackass, why would B date them?

It’s hard to achieve the sweet spot in between.

Not to mention, if you’re writing a straight romance and have little to no real life interaction with the opposite, they may end up lacking a personality. For me, writing believable masculine characters is a challenge.

I have a problem with writing three things.

1st. Small Talk
I've never been good with IRL small talk. The most you get from is hi/sup or a "Nice shoes" if we're at a pool. (Yes, that person was not wearing shoes. I was just nervous and decided to go with my best conversation starter. But it worked out in the end because they thought I was just joking.)

2nd. Group conversation.
This was easily the second most frustrating thing I've ever written. And this happens a lot in my story. This one particular scene I had 12 people in one room. There was two groups of 6 and both groups were getting to know each other. 9 bubbly personalities + 2 introverts + a girl with split personalities = HELL.

3rd. Rapping
I'm at a point in my story where the main villain for this arc has the ability to create anything he wants by spelling it out. So in the early stages of his design I wanted to make him a rapper. And I decided to stick with that concept. But now that he's incorporated into the actual story, I realize how difficult it is to be a consistently good rapper.

  • Smart characters because I am dumb.
  • Scenes that requires emotional intensity because I write really flatly.
  • Comedic scenes or jokes.
  • Fighting scenes.

I have trouble describing settings or ideas in an interesting way in my narration. Dialogue? Sure, that's easy for me. I'm always imagining my characters talking to one another. But I hardly ever think about where they are, what the place looks like, and if I have any important things to explain about a setting I can't do it too well without sounding like a brochure. Now I could probably tell you where all the characters are in relation to one another, what they're doing, how they're doing it, what's on their mind while doing it, blah blah blah. Anything character-focused is extremely easy for me, but I don't exactly have a vivid picture of what everyone and everything looks like. So I'd say a good 70-80% of my novel is dialogue lol. It's just "This is where they are" then they talk. I'm working on it tho!! It's hard, but I'm working!! Just appeal to the five senses and use the proper words to convey tone and atmosphere.

Also, it's kinda funny, but I have pretty much the same exact problem with my comic as well... Characters are detailed, full of personality, and whatever else they need. I'll draw every single character in a scene no problem. The backgrounds? Either way too simple and doesn't give enough information, or straight up non-existent. Again, a problem I'm working on and I think I'm starting to get a good feel for it now.

So uhhhh, yeah. I know I'm not perfect, but I'm trying my best lol

Sex scenes. :joy:

I'm fine with heavy emotional scenes or action scenes or eerie atmospheres but just not sex. It comes out too mechanical and I skip over a lot of stuff lol. Thank god for my betareader! :smiley:

Dialogue :joy: I find its hard to make it flow naturally. Maybe I don't talk enough, so I'm not sure how it should be done (?).

I talk all the time but dialogue is still hard for me, but maybe that´s because I like dialogue in english better than in german
and english is not my first language

I have a slightly different problem with those, I write them without any trouble but then when it comes to publishing I get too embarrassed and edit them right down :sweat_smile:

I kind of struggle with two.

  1. Descriptions: I think I describe enough to paint the picture but I often worry that I'm not doing enough to describe my characters and scenes but I also don't want the descriptions to sound mechanical. Like the descriptions that say "he was 6'2" with a taper cut half-fade haircut and a sleeve of tattoos on his left arm." I just can't tell sometimes if I do enough.

  2. The other is romance. I have characters that in my head, if they were real would be doing the couple thing where they're always half-hugging each other when standing by each other. I can write things like "A grabbed B's favorite X" or "C made D dinner because they were stressed". I can do behavior like that but you can't really write about the tiny touches, the longing stares, etc that IRL couples do around their partner. It's hard.

Thanks for the replies so far. It is interesting to read what other people have trouble with writing or is easy for them.
It´s not like the "hands" answer you get from most people who draw

For me, it's plot. Character dialogue and interactions come so naturally to me, as does imagining them in various scenarios, but pulling those together into a cohesive plot is a struggle.

I find romance to be the most difficult. I usually try to keep it almost entirely out of my writing. I should write some romance short stories to improve myself at it tbh

Romance, don't even start me on kissing/intement scenes. Want something ridiculously difficult, it can be easy for some folk but for me it is so choppy and sometimes it is just ... bleh.

By hardest if you mean requiring the most effort, then -

Comedy. The timing aspect.

Hard Science. The Research and Study aspect.

And almost everything when I write non-fiction.

STEM subjects. Totally not my field of knowledge.

Like I recently got an idea about a machine-driven apocalypse but I had to wonder would my idea for the thing that led to it even be possible? And I have no idea how to even research it because it's so speculative.

I love dialogs and I see myself as a dialog writer more than a settings writer.
I'm not good at settings and describing backgrounds.
I'm just happy that I have a talent artist @nathanKmcwilliams understanding me.
And now I even have a concept artist @Chita helping out with my Bunneh story.

Dialogue is the hardest part for me. Trying to make it feel authentic and flow well is a challenge.

I believe the hardest thing to write is German using cursive. :grin:

Fight scenes! Can't believe I forgot about that, haha. I've always had trouble with fight scenes. It's hard to come up with anything more interesting than "Character x attacked! Character y dodged!" and so forth.