To be fair, some people have had it very, very bad. However that has no barring on who is allowed to be upset. People today can also have it just as bad or worse. Heck, even if it wasn't, why turn it into a competition? That doesn't help anyone. All it establishes is that you think you should be treated more special than anyone else.
@Kazsup
It's translated from French, so if you're going for literal it doesn't make much sense. I don't know enough French to give you a breakdown of why it is that way. but in this isn't "have" doesn't mean owning. it's like they're saying "have some cake." A term that is often used as an offer to eat it.
An alternate way to translate it, once you eat it you don't have it anymore. it's a really old idiom that really doesn't take into account nuances like saving half.
Either way, no matter your personal nuance, it just means "you can't have it both ways"
"boys will be boys" : )))))))) really pisses me off since its always in relation to something girls either cant get away with doing without being berated for/ something that directly excuses whats been done to a girl
its a phrase that just excuses and lets guys get away with doing usually terrible things these days
"Oh no/shit/fuck, he's cute/hot."
Please come up with something more original. Once I see this line of dialogue I pack my things and leave.
I add more because I recently heard it
Do not talk about the deceased or Do not talk ill about the deceased
So what, someone suddenly becomes a good and sacred holy relic because they are dead? I really don't get this. I know it's might be for protecting the loved ones' feeling and mourning stuff, but what about people who are legit wronged by the deceased (like abused children or spouse) who finally can speak up?
If the person is a scumbag asshole I'll keep talking shit about them and that's their legacy for being one, your actions can follow beyond death. Also isn't gossiping and talking shit about the dead is the point of history?
Also I hate it in discussion when people says "(Fill in blank) like you won't understand"
To add more context, example is in religious discussion about God they will say "Atheist like you won't understand".
Won't understand what? Please elaborate your point? Why being something or someone have to do with comprehensive thinking?
The sentence is like a sophisticated form of "Nah, I think you're stupid because the (insert something here) I believe is superior." Or they are too lazy and dumb to give a proper comeback.
That one used to bother me, too, until my husband explained this to me: in order to prevent wildfires, controlled burns are often used to burn away the stuff that allows the wildfires to rage on. It's all dry, dead, and doesn't help. It is controlled through different means. Anyway, from those controlled burns, the trees that are hydrated and healthy only get superficial burns, their seeds open and drop away, which allows new growth to develop into hydrated healthy trees.
So, literally fighting fire with fire works, but I personally think the saying is overused as a justification to do terrible things, but that's just me.
This one is going to sound heartless but
"There are starving children in Africa!"
And me not finishing wants on my plate is some how going to effect them???
"You know, it's all in your head." Wow, no shit Deborah, it's like that's what mentally ill means.
"You should smile more." No. I most certainly will not. (This is mostly referring to people that I don't know, it can be used as a legitimate compliment, but in general, this pisses me the hell off.)
"Wow, wig." I'm not old, this one just really grinds me for some reason I cannot explain. hahaha.
"I came at the speed of gay." CAN YOU. JUST. NOT. PLEASE???
"I came at the speed of gay."
That is the first time I have ever heard this one. Is it a common heard expression?
You know, for as often as I've had it be a comment on my comic (on Webtoons specifically), I thought this would be more well known. Haha.
I've seen some references to gay people walking faster than average. But I've never seen this specific phrase. And I have no idea where the idea comes from (and I am one of those gay people).
Maybe it's a fujoshi thing? Kinda like the ones I was complaining about earlier.
On that note, regarding very specific sayings said in groups of people. This is one I ran into a few times when I was drawing a comic with anthro characters.
"That's speciesist" followed by a lecture on 'racism and representation' when furries are mad that you didn't draw what animal they associate with in your comic. I'm to busy dealing with racism and lack of representation in real life, I don't have fuking time to play fake racism with you guys.
