Welp... Friends and strangers who happened to make small chat with me praise me for being able to live out of this. Some ask me how long I've been doing this or what strategy I've applied to succeed, I avoid telling the details that exposes the toxic perfectionist enviroment I grew up with since I won't like some of them... idk, knowing a family member and then telling them, I simply don't want self-righteous hypocrites coming at my door.
My father's side while they compliment me and feel happy for me, there are concerned since my grandfather was also an artist, a very successful one but due to alzheimer he ended up in poverty and separated from his toddler sons at a very early age, never recovered and also became an addict. So both my dad and uncle worry especially about my mental state, but do it on a healthy way by not being pushy and just let me be honest to them, which, thankfully I do trust.
My mother's side, well... the few that kind of accepted and somewhat understood what I do is my younger aunt's husband and my great grandmother. My uncle liked to talk about the webcomics I work for and the process of making them since that interested him, meanwhile my great grandmother not only gave me input when I was drawing sexy girls, she also bought a few pin-ups and hung them on her fridge, still tho she admmited to me she was afraid I couldn't live out of this but she noticed her error the moment she saw me leaving my mom's house with brand new furniture already in the cargo truck (The ones I rubbed on everyone's faces: Fridge and Washing Machine which are hella expensive) since when my mom got with my dad she only had a bag with her clothes, nothing else (And my dad didn't had much either, so they started off pretty poor)
But despite that I purposefully used my money and even exposed my earnings to my family, seems like my mother doesn't believe I can live out of this. Even my therapist is amazed that despite how much I do, is not enough for this woman. And if she already didn't trust me at the point of every time she contacted me she went "Do you need money?" "Ask me if you need anything!" things got worse when my younger sibling got diagnosed of ASD, ugh, she immediatly assumed I must have ASD too and began to infantilize me even more and I called her out on her ableism and lack on trust of me, but things went even more clear when she said
"What are you going to do the day you can't live out of your hyperfixation?"
It's been almost a year since I went No Contact with her.
Oh, and I've also found out a few artists friends I have are a bit surprised when I mention I have a MakeUp, Hairdressing and Manicurist Titles, or that I even won a few hairstyle contests. They also get surprised at the fact I also won a few karaoke contests or that I worked on my hometown's City Hall.
Is a fact tho: In South-America you'll find out more people getting surprised at you making money out of this than not, if you don't make money they'll feel amazed you have the time to dedicate to your hobbies and would encourage you to keep it up.