^^^ This. I hate it, but I've seen it done without the characters even saying anything. Like, they could just be existing with a rando and the MC loses it. This would be fun as a way to explore domestic abuse (Especially if the abuser was a chick since I've never seen a story with that dynamic where the abuser was fleshed out.), but gosh, it's so annoying. Although I admit to being bias, this lack of basic communications thing has happened to me so many times, not just with partners but with coworkers, supervisors, family. People can't just freaken ask questions or talk to eachother like proper adults, it's the worst. Especially when you get in trouble for the other party's lack of communication. Not saying people shouldn't have it in their story, I'll just stop reading if it comes up, which... I'm not the creator's target audience anyway. Sooooo, no loss there.
Other than that I'm pretty indifferent to whatever stories people create. I said it in another thread, but I don't even know tropes to be honest, that kind of knowledge is not beneficial to me.
Regarding disliking something being bad. It's silly to humanize fiction for the sake of possibly protecting the feelings of someone who is too attached to it. If someone is too young, or mentally incapable of handling indirect negative viewpoints on stuff, they shouldn't be in that space to begin with. It is not healthy for them. It's just like the whole argument to censor fiction and dark, queer or adult art "for the children" rather than restricting what kids can see, or educating them on why they should avoid that thing.
Q&A threads like this are not being shoved down people's throats, they can be muted, the person can go to or make other threads that counter the negative ones. There is nothing bad about stuff like this unless the people are being racist, sexist, bigoted, or harassing the ones making the fiction. Also if that's all a forum or chat is made up of, seeing nothing but negativity can be detrimental to everyone involved. Although if someone asked me if I wanted a chocolate bar, and my response was "I don't like chocolate, I think it's gross.", I am not the meanie if they get upset with me.
I understand that things like this can discourage children and some adults from exploring certain stories, but like... the only thing to do is restrict speech, force positivity to protect all the impressionable folks. Which will probably be a thing eventually since art and books are already being slowly pushed down that path. But yeah, there's not much else to do other than that. I also agree that you can make a story thing work if you do it right no matter what it is, but people should be allowed to express that they dislike things. Especially if those things are not alive, and have no autonomy.